• The Loft NC, LLC - Gastonia, NC
  • 469-KINKYNC (469.546.5962)
  • loftnc@gmail.com
Facebook Twitter Instagram
  • Home
  • The Social Club
    • Photo Gallery
    • Dungeon Rules
    • Membership Information
    • Loft Rental
    • How You Can Help
    • Testimonials / Reviews
  • The Studio
  • News / Blog
  • Regular Events
    • Newbie Night
    • Rope Bite
    • Poly & ENM
    • “Impact Church”
    • DsRT
  • Calendar
  • Discord
  • FAQ
  • Contact Us
  • Home
  • The Social Club
    • Photo Gallery
    • Dungeon Rules
    • Membership Information
    • Loft Rental
    • How You Can Help
    • Testimonials / Reviews
  • The Studio
  • News / Blog
  • Regular Events
    • Newbie Night
    • Rope Bite
    • Poly & ENM
    • “Impact Church”
    • DsRT
  • Calendar
  • Discord
  • FAQ
  • Contact Us

https://fetlife.com/users/645106/posts/3246928

Stories

The Ride

by Lady Leigh September 9, 2015

This was her first time. There had been many firsts since coming to live with Master, some of them a little scarey, most of them a real turn-on, but all of them exciting…for the simple fact that they were firsts, with Master. And even though this could be seen as …

Continue Reading
September 9, 2015
1 FacebookTwitterPinterestEmail
Contributed Writings

10 Leather Protocol Lessons I learned from Outlaw Bikers…

by Lady Leigh September 9, 2015

Despite being a punk rock artist, I was around a lot of “biker” culture growing up. My father rides a harley. My grandparents were post-war MC members in the late 1940’s. I got introduced to tattooing through biker-based tattoo studios, and apprenticed with these types of men around all the …

Continue Reading
September 9, 2015
0 FacebookTwitterPinterestEmail

https://fetlife.com/users/3240725/posts/3201704

Contributed Writings

To the Nice Guys

by Lady Leigh August 27, 2015

I was going to write a rant today about cheating piles of shit preaching to men and giving them advice on how to “talk to” women. I was going to write a rant today about the “men” who rape. I was going to write a rant today about the guys …

Continue Reading
August 27, 2015
0 FacebookTwitterPinterestEmail

https://fetlife.com/groups/15907/posts/6670494

Contributed Writings

What a Professional Mistress is and is not

by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015

1) First and foremost, she is a business women! She is providing a service, usually to make a living, just like any other store or service provider. Some of them do barter by the way. 2) She is providing a service that many men need, mostly to married men, but …

Continue Reading
August 9, 2015
0 FacebookTwitterPinterestEmail

https://fetlife.com/groups/730/posts/7487102

Contributed Writings

Red Flags in Relationships

by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015

There’s an old saying that “Good judgment comes from experience. Unfortunately, experience comes from bad judgment.” I teach this class for two reasons. One, to – hopefully – keep you from making some of my mistakes and Two … to remind me not to repeat my mistakes in the future. …

Continue Reading
August 9, 2015
0 FacebookTwitterPinterestEmail

https://fetlife.com/groups/51/group_posts/7570345?escape=false&utm_campaign=notifications&utm_medium=email&utm_source=new_group_discussion

Contributed Writings

If you ever wondered what rope sluts think about

by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015

Oh I cut myself – can I get a bondage please? ‘Mum, I’m going to a macramé workshop for the weekend’ …yeah, that should work. I’m really starting to get this string theory thing… Surely falling down the stairs is a believable excuse to cover bruises from impact play. People …

Continue Reading
August 9, 2015
0 FacebookTwitterPinterestEmail
Contributed Writings

Doms are Like Toddlers

by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015

Their two favorite words are “no” and “now.” They must always get their way. ALWAYS. They DO NOT like being spanked. They beat the crap out of their toys. They can’t resist pulling long hair. Everything is either, “No, I do it MYSELF!” or must be served to them with great flourish. …

Continue Reading
August 9, 2015
0 FacebookTwitterPinterestEmail

https://tacit.livejournal.com/578925.html?nojs=1

Contributed WritingsResources and Education

Polyamory: So What Is Couple Privilege, Anyway?

by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015

This article was linked on Fetlife and I thought the information and thoughts the author invoked were invaluable for anyone considering or engaging in poly dynamics.  Article/journal entry shared here is reposted in its entirety as the original writing by Franklin Veaux: Live Journal Entry. Click Franklin’s Page to follow his writings on …

Continue Reading
August 9, 2015
1 FacebookTwitterPinterestEmail

https://fetlife.com/users/14568/posts/3185249

Contributed Writings

Geoff’s Mentoring Rules

by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015

Mentoring…(rules???) Rule #1 – If they want to have sex with you, THEY ARE NOT A MENTOR. Rule #1a – If you want to have sex with them, YOU AREN’T LOOKING FOR A MENTOR. Rule #2 – If they want to play with you, THEY ARE NOT A MENTOR. Rule #2a – If …

Continue Reading
August 9, 2015
0 FacebookTwitterPinterestEmail

https://fetlife.com/groups/12409/posts/6946568

Contributed Writings

Top 20 things if considering BDSM or Kink

by Lady Leigh July 9, 2015

*It should be noted that there is no “One True Way”. No matter what side of the slash you are on, you have to define your needs, your wants, and your limits. This includes the type of relationship you are looking for and how you wish to live within it. …

Continue Reading
July 9, 2015
0 FacebookTwitterPinterestEmail
Newer Posts
Older Posts

Categories

  • Blog (13)
  • Contributed Writings (72)
  • Impact Church (1)
  • Newbie Night (1)
  • Resources and Education (20)
  • Stories (1)
Swingers Personals

Stay in Touch

Subscribe to stay updated on the latest news and events from The Loft! 

Facebook Twitter Instagram

© 2026 The Loft NC, LLC. All rights Reserved.
Web Services By: AltCarolinas.com

Login

The Loft
  • Home
  • The Social Club
    • Photo Gallery
    • Dungeon Rules
    • Membership Information
    • Loft Rental
    • How You Can Help
    • Testimonials / Reviews
  • The Studio
  • News / Blog
  • Regular Events
    • Newbie Night
    • Rope Bite
    • Poly & ENM
    • “Impact Church”
    • DsRT
  • Calendar
  • Discord
  • FAQ
  • Contact Us