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    My Master!

    by loftnc@gmail.com January 9, 2018
    by loftnc@gmail.com January 9, 2018

    by Regi-_S Original Post Although, known to many as “Master” Regi-, I have to confess that, after many years in a relation with one that I love, I have come to …

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    Red Flags for Relationships (BDSM or Vanilla)

    by loftnc@gmail.com January 9, 2017
    by loftnc@gmail.com January 9, 2017

    RED FLAGS! Any one or two of these might be explained, but if you start to see a pattern, the things below are RED FLAGS for which to watch out. …

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    How to Message a person on Fetlife

    by loftnc@gmail.com January 9, 2017
    by loftnc@gmail.com January 9, 2017

    A Suggestion Wow, you have found this place called fetlife… and this thing called kink/bdsm. How fucking cool is that. Here are women, real women who post pics of themselves, …

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    Downhill slide… Illusion of Stability

    by loftnc@gmail.com January 9, 2017
    by loftnc@gmail.com January 9, 2017

    Yesterday on the way to one of the munches I lead, I got stuck in my driveway. Yes it was probably not the smartest idea that I was driving my …

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    2017 Points to Ponder

    by loftnc@gmail.com January 1, 2017
    by loftnc@gmail.com January 1, 2017

    1. The most important person in your life is the person(s) who agreed to share their life with you. Treat them as such. 2. You might live a long life, …

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    Male Privilege / Female Disadvantage

    by loftnc@gmail.com November 9, 2016
    by loftnc@gmail.com November 9, 2016

    by -sugarbritches Being transgender is complicated but has opened my eyes to a phenomenon I had not realized even existed; that is male privilege. Don’t get me wrong, I knew of …

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    Keep your Shining Knights, I’ll take the Dragon!

    by loftnc@gmail.com November 9, 2016
    by loftnc@gmail.com November 9, 2016

    I’ve never been drawn to the ‘Knight in Shining Armour’ or the ‘Prince Charming’. I’m much happier in the company of Dragons, or one Dragon in particular, I should say. …

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    Ten things this Dominant expects his Submissive to know without being told…

    by loftnc@gmail.com November 9, 2016
    by loftnc@gmail.com November 9, 2016

    1. That life isn’t binary. Sometimes she will have other things she needs to put first. Sometimes I have other things I need to put first. It may be health, …

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    Fire Play

    by loftnc@gmail.com October 9, 2016
    by loftnc@gmail.com October 9, 2016

    by Howwwlnwulf So you have embraced your inner caveman and cavewoman and want to play with fire. What is it that excites you about this kind of play? Fire affects all …

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    Warning to Dominants – Don’t Lose your Submissive

    by loftnc@gmail.com September 9, 2016
    by loftnc@gmail.com September 9, 2016

    WRITTEN BY RIVERDALE GODDESS. . . I spent last night counseling a submissive who is thinking about leaving her collar. She expressed such complete devotion to her Dominant but doubt …

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