Join The LoftNC on Discord
Our Discord server is a private, members-only space for the kink and BDSM community at The LoftNC. Please read the requirements below before requesting access.
Who can join
Membership in our Discord community is restricted to individuals who have an active membership at The LoftNC and have either attended a physical event or completed a signed waiver on file with us.
This is a 18+ space. By requesting access, you confirm that you are at least 18 years of age.
How to get approved
- Use the invite link below to join the server. You will land in a limited-access entry area.
- Set your display name. Your Discord profile name must include your scene name in some form. It can be in parentheses — for example: Jane (KittenRose) or KittenRose (Jane) — but your scene name must be clearly visible in your profile name.
- Send a DM to a moderator to request approval. Introduce yourself and confirm your membership status. A moderator will verify your waiver/event attendance and grant you full server access.
Community conduct
This is a kink and BDSM community space. We expect all members to engage with respect, discretion, and consent as a foundation. The following standards apply at all times:
18+ only – All content, discussion, and interactions are strictly for adults 18 and older.
Consent-forward – Respect others’ stated limits and boundaries — in conversation and in any content shared. Unsolicited explicit content or advances are not tolerated.
No discrimination – Racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, and other forms of bigotry have no place here.
Discretion – What is shared in this server stays within this server. Do not share other members’ personal information, real names, images, or scenes without explicit consent.
No minors – Sharing, discussing, or referencing sexual content involving anyone under 18 will result in an immediate and permanent ban.