the Place To Be Just Who You Are!
What we are & what we are not!
We ARE an education based Social Group and Dungeon located in Gastonia, NC. We offer a kink friendly environment in which to relax and play, enjoy stimulating conversations where nothing is taboo, have noisy scene time, or a place to get away with freedoms for kink not always available in a hotel. We strongly believe in educating others to enjoy this lifestyle safely. This is our mission.
We ARE NOT a "sex house", a swinger's club, or a place to watch orgies happen (there are other clubs for that). Yes we are a sex positive establishment which means if you and your partner wish to have sex you may do so. However, if your goal is to come watch others having sex you'll be greatly disappointed. That is NOT what we are about.
Click here for our CALENDAR OF EVENTS
Our Gastonia location is located on almost two acres, in a well insulated “Loft” above a garage play space, leather shop for and private office. For those asking, yes we are still looking for a larger facility once again. The LoftNC is approximately 1000 square feet with a full kitchen (with all essentials) and bath, equipped with a massage table, St Andrews crosses, spanking benches, queen size 4 poster bed with 2 cages underneath and multiple attachment points, medical table, suspension beam, Bowflex, seating areas, stereos, and WiFi. There is also a large back deck with chairs for relaxing and a hammock chair stand for suspension as well.
The LoftNC holds open play socials and specialty parties on Friday and Saturday evenings and educational demos/presentations and events on Sunday afternoons. Please see our Calendar of Events for further information. Presentations and demos are open to everyone and are NOT vetted events.
Initial RSVP for your first visit to the LoftNC requires an email to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. to receive the unlisted private address and other important information about the social club. This is for the privacy of our members. After you have been to the LoftNC the first time, subsequent visits only need to be RSVP'd by email to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or online @ Fetlife.com as "going" or "maybe" so we have a head count.
The LoftNC is a non-smoking facility, however, smoking is permitted on the patio. We ask everyone to honor our smoking policy. Violations of our smoking policy will result in a $250 cleaning assessment.
- Vanilla attire to the door, you may change once inside
- Toys in discrete bags please
- View our Dungeon Rules page for more information.
Membership dues are $20 and renew annually on your anniversary date. Read more on membership information. You can pay your dues at the door for any of our events or online Square Marketplace - LoftNC Dues.
The LoftNC Gastonia is available for rent for periods from one hour, several hours or for overnight. Rates for individual/couple rentals are $50 per hourly and $200 for overnight.
Group or private party rentals, please contact Lady Leigh at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. to discuss the needs of your group.
*Our Growth & Need for Support*
The LoftNC is continually growing to meet the needs of the community. Your continued support of the LoftNC will make this possible. To make this happen we are looking for investors and donations. If you are interested in helping or know of funding or financial opportunities, please email Lady Leigh at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.. We are also accepting donations online Square Marketplace - Donations, Help Us Grow!
