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The Social Club...

the Place To Be Just Who You Are!

What we are & what we are not!

We ARE an education based Social Group and Dungeon located in Gastonia, NC.  We offer a kink friendly environment in which to relax and play, enjoy stimulating conversations where nothing is taboo, have noisy scene time, or a place to get away with freedoms for kink not always available in a hotel.  We strongly believe in educating others to enjoy this lifestyle safely.  This is our mission. We ARE NOT a place to come with the goal of "having sex, being/or watching sex."  If that's your goal, we are not the club for you.


When are we open?

We are NOT open 24/7, we are NOT open every Friday or Saturday night.  We ARE open for events as posted on the Calendar of Events just below.  This calendar is updated as events are planned.  Please do not show up on evenings that are not events, you will not be admitted.



Our Caldendar of Events is continually updated as new events are added.  



Our Gastonia location is located on almost two acres, in a well insulated “Loft” above a garage play space, leather shop for Soaring Eagle Creations for and private office.  The LoftNC is approximately 1000 square feet with a full kitchen (with all essentials), full bath, and is equipped with a massage table, St Andrews crosses, spanking benches, queen size 4 poster bed with 2 cages underneath and multiple attachment points, medical table, suspension beam, Bowflex, seating areas, stereos, and WiFi. There is also a large back deck with chairs for relaxing and a hammock chair stand for suspension as well.

We are currently working on replacing some boards on the deck and stairs, adding privacy boards along the upstairs deck, replacing the roof, painting and planting trees along the street for additional privacy.  We will be scheduling work days for those wanting to lend a hand and, of course, any donations of building materials, labor, or funds to help in these efforts are always graciously accepted and deeply appreciated.

The LoftNC holds open play socials and specialty parties on Friday and Saturday evenings and educational demos/presentations and events on Sunday afternoons. Please see our Calendar of Events for further information. Presentations and demos are open to everyone and are NOT vetted events as we strongly believe education should be available to everyone and it is our mission to assist in teaching others about the kinky lifestyle we love so much.

Initial RSVP for your first visit to the LoftNC requires an email to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. to receive the unlisted private address and other important information about the social club. This is for the privacy of our members.  After you have been to the LoftNC the first time, subsequent visits only need to be RSVP'd by email to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or online @ Fetlife.com as "going" or "maybe" so we have a head count.  

The LoftNC is a non-smoking facility, however, smoking is permitted on the patio.  We ask everyone to honor our smoking policy.   Violations of our smoking policy will result in a $250 cleaning assessment. 


  • Vanilla attire to the door, you may change once inside
  • Toys in discrete bags please
  • View our Dungeon Rules page for more information
  • Smoking/vaping on deck only
  • No drugs or alcohol (beer and wine only with discretion


Membership dues are $20 and renew annually on your anniversary date.  Read more on membership information. You can pay your dues at the door for any of our events or online Square Marketplace - LoftNC Dues.


Rental Availability

The LoftNC Gastonia is available for rent for periods from one hour, several hours or for overnight.  Rates for individual/couple rentals are $50 per hourly and $200 for overnight. 

Group or private party rentals, please contact Lady Leigh at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. to discuss the needs of your group.

*Our Growth & Need for Support*

The LoftNC is continually growing to meet the needs of the community.  Your continued support of the LoftNC will make this possible.  To make this happen we are looking for investors and donations.  If you are interested in helping or know of funding or financial opportunities, please email Lady Leigh at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..  We are also accepting donations online Square Marketplace - Donations, Help Us Grow!




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