the Place To Be Just Who You Are!
What we are & what we are not!
We ARE an education based Social Group and Dungeon located in Gastonia, NC. We offer a kink friendly environment in which to relax and play, enjoy stimulating conversations where nothing is taboo, have noisy scene time, or a place to get away with freedoms for kink not always available in a hotel. We strongly believe in educating others to enjoy this lifestyle safely. This is our mission. We ARE NOT a place to come with the goal of "having sex, being/or watching sex." If that's your goal, we are not the club for you.
BLACK LIVES MATTER!!!
YES we are very in support of Black Lives Matter and are working diligently to make sure that our policies (while they have always stated that everyone is welcome and we don't do drama of any sort) will be updated to more specifically reflect our alignment and support of PoC. We are and have always been an all inclusive event venue where drama and discimination in any manner is not and never will be tolerated. All PoC and LGBTQ are always welcome.
FOR YOUR SAFETY DURING THE PANDEMIC:
Coronavirus (COVID-19): Making Informed Decisions
**How You Can Help - keep your local dungeon running during COVID-19**
As we are all watching events across the country being canceled due to situations beyond all control, we feel its prudent and for the safety of our members and guests, to cancel all events at this time. We will get these events rescheduled as soon as possible so check our Calendar of Events for updates. Health & safety are always first.
While we never want to feed the panic, it remains a judicious precaution to close events especially in light of our lifestyle. We can clean everything constantly and urge people who have been traveling or are not feeling well to stay home, but there is always that outside chance that a germ will sneak through. We have been told that if an illness can trace back to our event we would be forced to reveal personal information about guests for quarantine purposes and this is something we aren't willing to do. Your privacy and trust in us as a venue is vital to our well being and your safety.
We will continue to monitor the situation and adjust the calendar accordingly. We will miss everyone but will hopefully see you soon. Hugs (even virtual one) are missed :(
When are we open?
Due to the NC Mandated Stay at Home Order effective March 30th, we are closed until further notice. As things improve or mandates are lifted, we will re-evaluate the situation and communicate to you all on how we will proceed.
If you are going stir crazy and need to get out to play, we will offer availability for private rentals to current members, however, house toys and aftercare blankets will not be available and additional cleaning chrage will apply.
We are NOT open 24/7, we are NOT open every Friday or Saturday night. We ARE open for events as posted on the Calendar of Events just below. This calendar is updated as events are planned. Please do not show up on evenings that are not events, you will not be admitted.
Our Calendar of Events is continually updated to provide the most updated information on all the events happening at the LoftNC.
Our Gastonia location is located on almost two acres, in a well insulated “Loft” above a garage play space, leather shop for Soaring Eagle Creations for and private office. The LoftNC is approximately 1600 square feet on 2 floors with a full kitchen (with all essentials), full bath, and is equipped with a massage table, St Andrews crosses, spanking benches, queen size 4 poster bed with 2 cages underneath and multiple attachment points, medical table, suspension beam, Bowflex, seating areas, stereos, and WiFi. There is also a large back deck with chairs for relaxing and a hammock chair stand for suspension as well.
Summer of 2019 we replaced a lot of boards on the deck, completely rebuilt the outside stairs, added privacy boards along the upstairs deck for more privacy and completely painted all of it. Our large deck is now a lot more private and welcoming for outdoor play, weather permitting.
Early 2020 we will be replacing the roof, painting and planting trees along the street for additional privacy. We will be scheduling work days for those wanting to lend a hand and, of course, any donations of building materials, labor, or funds to help in these efforts are always graciously accepted and deeply appreciated.
The LoftNC holds open play socials and specialty parties on Friday and Saturday evenings and educational demos/presentations and events on Sunday afternoons. Please see our Calendar of Events for further information. Presentations and demos are open to everyone and are NOT vetted events as we strongly believe education should be available to everyone and it is our mission to assist in teaching others about the kinky lifestyle we love so much.
Initial RSVP for your first visit to the LoftNC requires an email to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. to receive the unlisted private address and other important information about the social club. This is for the privacy of our members. After you have been to the LoftNC the first time, subsequent visits only need to be RSVP'd by email to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or online @ Fetlife.com as "going" or "maybe" so we have a head count.
The LoftNC is a non-smoking facility, however, smoking is permitted on the patio. We ask everyone to honor our smoking policy. Violations of our smoking policy will result in a $250 cleaning assessment.
- Vanilla attire to the door, you may change once inside
- Toys in discrete bags please
- View our Dungeon Rules page for more information
- Smoking/vaping on deck only
- No drugs or alcohol (beer and wine only with discretion
Membership dues are $20 and renew annually on your anniversary date. Read more on membership information. You can pay your dues at the door for any of our events or online Square Marketplace - LoftNC Dues.
The LoftNC Gastonia is available for rent for periods from one hour, several hours or for overnight. Rates for individual/couple rentals are $50 per hourly and $200 for overnight.
Group or private party rentals, please contact Lady Leigh at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. to discuss the needs of your group.
For more information about rentals please see Rental.
*Our Growth & Need for Support*
The LoftNC is continually growing to meet the needs of the community. Your continued support of the LoftNC will make this possible. To make this happen we are looking for investors and donations. If you are interested in helping or know of funding or financial opportunities, please email Lady Leigh at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.. We are also accepting donations online Square Marketplace - Donations, Help Us Grow!
We want everyone to know we take the safety and health of our members very seriously and hope you all stay healthy during this crisis.
Due to the NC Mandated Stay at Home Order effective March 30th, we are closed until further notice. As things improve or mandates are lifted, we will re-evaluate the situation and communicate to you all on how we will proceed.