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Negotiation Tips

by loftnc@gmail.com October 28, 2020

You hear so much about negotiation and how important it is for your safety.  Negotiations play a huge role in what it is that we do, both lifestyle and vanilla.  You negotiate your first date, your vanilla relationships, your job offers, etc.  In lifestyle you negotiate how to meet someone …

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October 28, 2020
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My Thoughts on “50 Shades of Grey”

by loftnc@gmail.com April 28, 2020

My opinion on the subject is this: 50 Shades is a romance. It’s not a great literary work but it’s entertaining for what it is and it opened a lot of doors and windows for people to realize that being kinky, submissive, etc is okay. Every generation had its book …

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April 28, 2020
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⚧Non binary⚧

by loftnc@gmail.com January 28, 2019

“I think sex, gender and sexuality isn’t just split in two, one or the other. I see gender and sexuality as a form of art, free from rules or commentary and full of creativity. Explore the human you are and fully develop its potential.” What a fantastic way to express …

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January 28, 2019
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Responsibility

by loftnc@gmail.com January 28, 2018

“I believe that when you are in a dominant position, in any aspect of life, that you have great responsibility to your subordinates. It is not an opportunity to “do whatever”, but a requirement to lead, be supportive, nurture and encourage. That includes demanding that subordinates tell you what they …

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January 28, 2018
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My Master!

by loftnc@gmail.com January 9, 2018

by Regi-_S Original Post Although, known to many as “Master” Regi-, I have to confess that, after many years in a relation with one that I love, I have come to realize that I am indeed, the more submissive one! Now, I proudly admit it and wish to share this news …

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January 9, 2018
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The Power of Touch

by loftnc@gmail.com April 28, 2017

When I first started scening I was focused on what I was doing… What implements I used, the bottom, where my strikes were landing. Those things are still very important but over time, I’ve learned how important touch is. I have become freer with using my hands and body for …

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April 28, 2017
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Red Flags for Relationships (BDSM or Vanilla)

by loftnc@gmail.com January 9, 2017

RED FLAGS! Any one or two of these might be explained, but if you start to see a pattern, the things below are RED FLAGS for which to watch out. If anyone……submissive, Dom, switch, or kinkster; 1) Tries to separate you from your friends, family or BDSM community. (Not allowing …

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January 9, 2017
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How to Message a person on Fetlife

by loftnc@gmail.com January 9, 2017

A Suggestion Wow, you have found this place called fetlife… and this thing called kink/bdsm. How fucking cool is that. Here are women, real women who post pics of themselves, some are naked, some are having sex and some are tied up or being beaten. The have fetish list a …

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January 9, 2017
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Downhill slide… Illusion of Stability

by loftnc@gmail.com January 9, 2017

Yesterday on the way to one of the munches I lead, I got stuck in my driveway. Yes it was probably not the smartest idea that I was driving my Prius with 4 nearly bald tires up a hill covered completely in a sheet of ice. I made it part …

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January 9, 2017
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2017 Points to Ponder

by loftnc@gmail.com January 1, 2017

1. The most important person in your life is the person(s) who agreed to share their life with you. Treat them as such. 2. You might live a long life, or you might live a short one — who knows. But either way, trust me when I say that you’re …

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January 1, 2017
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