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Welcome to our new Skills Class lovingly named “Impact Church”. This has been a class that we’ve thought of for awhile and now is the time to offer this to…

My opinion on the subject is this: 50 Shades is a romance. It’s not a great literary work but it’s entertaining for what it is and it opened a lot…

“I think sex, gender and sexuality isn’t just split in two, one or the other. I see gender and sexuality as a form of art, free from rules or commentary…

“I believe that when you are in a dominant position, in any aspect of life, that you have great responsibility to your subordinates. It is not an opportunity to “do…

When I first started scening I was focused on what I was doing… What implements I used, the bottom, where my strikes were landing. Those things are still very important…

At the LoftNC, we teach and talk a lot about consent.  We strongly express that consent is a YES – only positive consent is consent.  No is NO and Maybe…

DISCLAIMER!!!: I didn’t write this!! I just like to share things that are informative/funny/relate able for me 🙂 Here is the link to the original writing. You should go read…

Basic etiquette and manners matter in daily life and in lifestyle as well! Treat other people as you’d like to be treated. Golden rule usually works really well, however, when…

Like it? Have it bookmarked? Saved a copy? Share it Original Blog Post   PonyGroom: “Can I ask you a question about being in an ‘open’ marriage?” After the millionth time…

Do not distract or disturb the players. This goes for when you see people preparing for a scene (Tops and bottoms both need time to prepare and get their head…