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    “Impact Church” Skills Class

    by loftnc@gmail.com May 30, 2023
    by loftnc@gmail.com May 30, 2023

    Welcome to our new Skills Class lovingly named “Impact Church”. This has been a class that we’ve thought of for awhile and now is the time to offer this to …

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    My Thoughts on “50 Shades of Grey”

    by loftnc@gmail.com April 28, 2020
    by loftnc@gmail.com April 28, 2020

    My opinion on the subject is this: 50 Shades is a romance. It’s not a great literary work but it’s entertaining for what it is and it opened a lot …

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    ⚧Non binary⚧

    by loftnc@gmail.com January 28, 2019
    by loftnc@gmail.com January 28, 2019

    “I think sex, gender and sexuality isn’t just split in two, one or the other. I see gender and sexuality as a form of art, free from rules or commentary …

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    Responsibility

    by loftnc@gmail.com January 28, 2018
    by loftnc@gmail.com January 28, 2018

    “I believe that when you are in a dominant position, in any aspect of life, that you have great responsibility to your subordinates. It is not an opportunity to “do …

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    The Power of Touch

    by loftnc@gmail.com April 28, 2017
    by loftnc@gmail.com April 28, 2017

    When I first started scening I was focused on what I was doing… What implements I used, the bottom, where my strikes were landing. Those things are still very important …

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    Here’s how I explain sexual consent…

    by loftnc@gmail.com August 9, 2016
    by loftnc@gmail.com August 9, 2016

    At the LoftNC, we teach and talk a lot about consent.  We strongly express that consent is a YES – only positive consent is consent.  No is NO and Maybe …

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    6 Totally Normal Things Young Girls Do When They’re Discovering Their Sexuality That No One Ever Talks About

    by loftnc@gmail.com November 9, 2014
    by loftnc@gmail.com November 9, 2014

    DISCLAIMER!!!: I didn’t write this!! I just like to share things that are informative/funny/relate able for me 🙂 Here is the link to the original writing. You should go read …

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    Basic Etiquette

    by loftnc@gmail.com October 9, 2014
    by loftnc@gmail.com October 9, 2014

    Basic etiquette and manners matter in daily life and in lifestyle as well! Treat other people as you’d like to be treated. Golden rule usually works really well, however, when …

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    Practicing Polyamory

    by loftnc@gmail.com September 22, 2014
    by loftnc@gmail.com September 22, 2014

    Like it? Have it bookmarked? Saved a copy? Share it Original Blog Post   PonyGroom: “Can I ask you a question about being in an ‘open’ marriage?” After the millionth time …

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    Etiquette & Courtesy during scene time

    by loftnc@gmail.com September 9, 2014
    by loftnc@gmail.com September 9, 2014

    Do not distract or disturb the players. This goes for when you see people preparing for a scene (Tops and bottoms both need time to prepare and get their head …

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