Awesome private party
The Loft is awesome for both a private getaway and for a small private party. We had my slave’s 30th birthday party here and it was such a perfect spot. Lady Leigh was a very gracious host as well. There’s several toys to try and several pieces of furniture to use from a cage under the bed, a cross, and several spanking benches.
Review from _D_
Don’t let the small space fool you…
I had a wonderful experience staying in the playspace for the week of Sunday, July 14 until Saturday, July 20. The facility may seem small when you first arrive but don’t let that fool you! There is plenty of room to do either light or heavy scenes and the equipment provided is an excellent variety. I look forward to visiting again.
review from -Kc-
Couples Exploratorium Testimonial
Wonderfully intense!
I cannot thank you enough for letting us join. I learned so much about myself last night. I also learned about my partner. I never knew I would love being in front of a crowd, it was wonderfully intense. We met so many new friends and a new play partner or two. You run an incredible facility and I am grateful to have joined. Thank you for everything I look forward to coming again soon
Looking for
This group is just the type of group that my sub and myself have been looking for.
Feel Safe
I also wanted to say I had a wonderful time Sunday. I am so happy that I have found a place where I can meet like-minded people and feel safe while I’m having fun. I just want to thank you very much for helping provide that.
Warm welcome
Wanted to thank everyone for a great event yesterday! We’ve been very warmly welcomed by the people at The Loft and the venue is very comfortable. Looking forward to becoming regulars!
Warm hugs/Gray & KsKat
Favorite Playspace
- Jackie Maxwell I love them too, always looking to help.
- Jennifer Deese They really are a vital entrance point in NC
- Cici Chrysalis Love that!! It’s been on my presentation bucket list for awhile . . .
- Geoff Wingard Tori and I have both enjoyed the times we’ve presented there – good audience participation, welcoming atmosphere…
- Angel Noir The Loft definitely rocks socks! So warm and friendly!
Warm and welcoming family and community
[Excerpt from email to Lady Leigh]…It was great to finally meet you. I understand why you are so special to our mutual friend. You have the most warm and welcoming family and community. I am renting a room to a close friend who is transgendered and i see first hand the bigotry she faces, sometimes even within the kink community. I was very touched at how open and accepting your group was. Some groups claim to be, but yours really is.
First time out!
Visited The Loft for the first time today and as a matter of fact, it was my first foray into this lifestyle.
It was a pleasure and Lady Leigh and the others made me feel right at home. Did not participate much or mingle but was taking everything in.
Will be back next Sunday
Blessings!
I count so many times at The Loft as blessings!
- a place I can spend time with my family and love on them the way we choose, without condemnation
- where I can feed & be fed
- where I can hug. A lot.
- Bondage bears! (Even if they didn’t come home with us. Pout)
- Scritches
- Hair pulls
- Bites
- meeting new people
- Beautiful dirty Santa
- Delicious lap dance
- Seeing my friends happy
- TISSUE PAPER
Thank you to all my Lofties. You have made me holidays bright.
A Special Experience
Paula decided to make her first visit to the Loft this afternoon and her arrival was met with as friendly and warm a reception imaginable. After being put at ease I entered and was visited by just about everyone and received a warm welcome from each. During the day I had many conversations and felt like I had been coming to the Loft for years. You could feel the love everyone had for each other and even for me. It was a special feeling and afternoon. I will be attending as often as I can. An amazing group of people. If anyone reading this is in or around Charlotte I urge you to visit the Loft. You will not be sorry.
Great energy, thank you
Hey, just wanted to say that I had a great evening at the Loft. Although my background and experience has been in very strict protocol meetings this evening was a very cool “breath of fresh air” so to speak. The atmosphere you have going is absolutely wonderful and the energy during the scenes played was nothing less than palpable.
All in all, very glad I finally attended a class. So much so that I became a member. I look forward to many more opportunities to hang out.
First baby/littles party a huge success!!!
Thank you to all the babies, littles and brats who came out to play today and to the mommies and daddy’s who came out to help with all the little ones.
We had a blast all day. Coloring books, bubbles, sharing, balloons, snacks and juice and nap time and then more games.
Hugs to all
*****
Oh my gosh it was so much FUN!
Thank you so much for having it! And everyone who came!
*****
Thank you Lady Leigh for having the party!
It was awesome and totally fun.
*****
Best play time ever!
*****
Note to self, Pamper’s melt in a Maytag Dyrer, Crayons go up one draw higher, rewind Barney for the 15th time, Breakfast 6, naps at 9, There’s bubble gum in the babies hair, sweet potatoe’s in the lazy chair…..At this point you were singing the song in your head while reading this…lol Now finish the song!
*****
It was a great day. I think everyone is still feeling giddy today.
A great first party and more to come!
*****
“More”……. what a magical word!
Until now, I was convinced I must be the only little in the Charlotte area.
Any time I get to sit in a Mommy’s lap for some time like I did yesterday, meet new friends, have someone who cares to take care of me (more than one someone!), be comfortable enough that I don’t even care about being changed right out in the open, have someone put makeup on me, and play through naptime … :: suddenly remembers there are Mommies reading this :: Ummmmm ……. I mean SLEEP through naptime. Yeah. That’s it! And I don’t know why the balloon balls were all floating in the air when you came in either. We were all OBVIOUSLY asleep. Any time I can do all that is a WONDERFUL day! Actually … I’m reasonably certain I never have done all that before.
*****
I’m so happy you had a great time with your new friends. The mommy’s enjoyed as well. Hmm playing during nap time? Not my babies, they were all angels – well except for the brat here and there
*****Brat? I don’t know of any brats. :: Polishes rusty halo :: :: Giggle! ::
Electric and Energy!
On behalf of the LoftNC and all the members and participants yesterday, I want to extend a huge thank you to CobaltBlueSpark and MetalWoRx for an awesome class and presentation. Everyone had a fabulous day that will be talked about for a while. The energy was fantastic. Can’t wait to see you both again.
Hugs Lady Leigh
Afterglow
I am a very happy camper this morning, thanks to very special someones at The Loft. You really make people feel at home, and I’m so glad I came out. Leigh, you are awesome — ummmmm.
I want to second this comment. I really, really appreciate how welcome I was made to feel. It’s easy for a new person to feel like an interloper, but instead I felt like I was a long time friend. You guys were all awesome, and I am planning to be back again soon. Thank you to you all.
Thank you to Lady Tyger
I just wanted to say what a great time we had at The Loft today for the singletail whip demo / class. It was a great event and Lady Tyger was an awesome teacher.
Thanks so much for the wonderful event and opportunity to meet with friends and make new ones!
Mistress Manteo
I second that thought! I love learning something new and to get energized and the best is to get together with friends old and new!
Mistress Asia
I had a wonderful time!!! You guys were a very fun crowd to teach and thank you to The Loft for inviting me!! I enjoyed ya’ll as much as you enjoyed me I think! GRINS
Lady Tyger
I think it’s safe to say a good time was had by all. Tyger you were wonderful and helped open so many avenues of learning for whip play. And of course our crowd was their usual boisterous selves that we love so much. Sundays are great days with awesome friends and lots of hugs.
Thank you from Evil Geoff
Tori and I are home safe and sound, and I wanted to say “thank you” to the members of The Loft who braved the cold and rain to attend the demo that Tori and I gave. The warm welcome, and relaxed atmosphere, made this a very fun day for us. I hope that everyone took in something positive from the afternoon’s activities.
And a very appreciative “thank you” to our volunteer demo bottom during the second half of the proceedings! Your joie de vivre (and gigglesnorts) really made our day. 🙂
Safe journeys until we meet again,
– Geoff
BDSM 101 & Skit
Dannase and I would like to thank Lady Leigh and the fabulous people of The Loft for having us out yesterday. We truly enjoyed meeting everyone who braved the rainy day for our BDSM 101 discussion. We are very glad that we got you all laughing with our “Super Dan and Louann” skit…LOL. We had a lot of fun doing it for you!!
This was our first time visiting and presenting at The Loft and we are sure that it will not be our last! You all are an awesome set of folks and it was truly OUR pleasure to meet you all!!
Have a great week and hope to see you all again soon!
Dannase & EroticDs
Just what the doctor ordered…
This was just what the doctor ordered for Oni and I. We needed a quiet kinky place to reconnect after a 10-month absence, so we booked the Loft for a private evening. Lady Leigh had the place ready and waiting for us-towels, clean bed, sanitizing wipes, sound system, Wifi, Stocked kitchen, even some food! We also had use of all the toys, the upstairs and downstairs, and equipment-and what a wide array of toys there are to choose from and suitable for all sorts of play! It was perfect for us. Much recommended if you really need a night or five away.
Review from Kit_Foxslave
Wonderful and affordable experience!!
My submissive and I stayed for the first time, just over a week ago. We had such an amazing time and absolutely cannot wait to return. Lady Leigh was a pleasure to chat with and we look forward to purchasing some of the great leather items as well. We also managed to get some great shots from our session and would love for you to check them out on my page sometime. Thank you for making our first ever dungeon stay such a wonderful and affordable experience!!
mistakensilence
Renting the LoftNC
My partner and I rented out Loft NC for the night recently and it was the most amazing experience! I know a lot of lovely kinksters, but none more friendly and accommodating than the owners of Loft NC.
The facility itself is a kinkster’s wet dream, with everything we could wish for in a play space! It is simultaneously comfortably homey and erotically atmospheric. The place was clean, well stocked, and had every amenity we wanted, and then some!
Way to go Lady Leigh and company!
Theo & Isis
Happy New Year 2017
You are a gracious and welcoming hostess. Our experiences at the Loft have been nothing but educational, fun and comfortable. That speaks highly of You and all the others You mentioned. We are looking forward to attending as many events this year as we can possibly fit in our social calendar. Happy New Year
2017 Holiday Vendor Fair
We had a great time and are so in love with our purchases 😉 we upped our game for certain with these high quality items. It was really wonderful having the opportunity to test them out before purchasing and speak with the artisans about their intened usage. We look forward to watching this event expand and grow. Thank you l
My Exploratorium Experience with Lady Leigh
For as long as I can remember I have always dreamed about being a part of a BDSM lifestyle. Unfortunately the obstacles in my vanilla world kept my dream out of reach. That all changed when I discovered the Loft NC and contacted the owner Lady Leigh. I shared with Lady Leigh my extremely limited experience as well as my unlimited dreams. She assured me I could pursue my dreams in a clean, safe place, free from pressure and judgment. I was off to North Carolina to experience the Exploratorium Session with Lady Leigh.
The Exploratorium is described as a 90 minute interactive session for beginners to learn about, explore and experience all aspects of impact play and delve into other kinks of particular interest to the submissive. For me it was more like being a kid in a candy store! I was able to try out all of the equipment. I was able to touch, hold and more importantly experience the feel of each and every implement on my appropriate body part.
Lady Leigh is an amazing teacher. I quickly learned between stingy and thuddy impact, differences in leathers, suede, wood, cane, whips, bats and dragon tails. I learned the importance of thickness, and cut. By the time Lady Leigh was finished I could feel the difference between and identify the implements. I was able to discover what implements and activities I enjoyed the most.
Throughout the Exploratorium Session Lady Leigh was the perfect guide. I had many questions and she patiently answered them all. After the Exploratorium session Lady Leigh asked if I was ready to try a scene. The shock and excitement hit me like lightning. My heart was pounding and it was suddenly hard to breathe. My dreams were becoming reality. I finally managed to squeeze out the words “I would love to.”
Next thing I knew I was helplessly suspended on the St. Andrews Cross. The words “be careful what you wish for” raced through my head. At the same time I had complete trust in Lady Leigh.
Lady Leigh skillfully went from cane to whip and everything in between. She never missed her mark. She could hit a freckle with a whip or dragon tail from 5 feet away. From thud to sting Lady Leigh increased the intensity and had me dancing on the cross. Lady Leigh knew exactly when to stop and bring me back down with calming sensation play. Just as I was calm and relaxed the cycle started all over again. With each cycle the intensity increased to a higher level and Lady Leigh skillfully brought me down to an even more relaxed state. The scene ended just as Lady Leigh brought me to a state I never dreamed I could reach. It was a space beyond relaxation. As she took me from the cross Lady Leigh removed the blindfold and placed a warm blanket around me. As I described my feeling to Lady Leigh she responded with a caring smile and welcomed to me to sub space. I can’t wait for my next visit Lady Leigh and The Loft!
by debs29038
Thank you from MetalWoRx & CobaltBlueSpark
Thanks Everyone! You Made Our Demo Special For Us!
by MetalWoRx
I apologize for taking so long to send this, but I was too high on adrenalin last night and it has taken me a while to refocus after work today. Honestly focusing AT work was difficult at times today! lol Yesterday’s presentation was one of my favorites to offer you so far. We have talked about presenting this topic from time to time but I hesitated to take it public. I am grateful to Jobaby, Derrick and Lady Leigh for the support and encouragement to “just do it”. Once decided we just ran with it and enjoyed ourselves immensely. We hope it was as good for you as for us but I don’t know if that is possible. It was great for me. CobaltBlueSpark and I love The Loft and enjoy our time together there always but the energy yesterday was over the top. The support from staff, the attention to detail and the preparation to make everything go smoothly makes presenting here a dream.
First let me publicly thank GreenEyes42 for being so brave to bare herself as a demo bottom. Being physically exposed was a huge step but she stepped up to the plate and exposed her soul. I am so proud of her. I could not have shared what I did with you all without her willingness to be vulnerable. She totally rocks! Thank you to Cobalt and GreenEyes for the playlist, and thank you to Salacious Steve for your musical supervision. Thank you to those who joined into the presentation with questions and especially thanks to WeirdWulf for offering several pertinent points of information. Your shared knowledge was appreciated sir. Thank you to Master Gadget for vending some of the coolest knives available in the state! I know everyone who took one home is going to enjoy using it in play soon.
I really appreciate all the questions, the kind comments and feedback both in person yesterday and those in writing. I am working on responding to each of you personally and accepting the friend requests. Bear with me please. If any further questions come up drop me a line.
Thank you to each person who came out and made this demo possible.
Regards in Kink!
MetalWoRx
I’m glad we at least got to see you guys, and check out the Loft’s new, sexy space.
I hope we can get out there again soon and play a little before word gets out about how great it is and we have to fight a crowd for some play space 😉
(it’s my curse and claim to fame – Wulfy Grin)
Was great watching and Green Eyes facial expressions told the whole story of how she enjoyed your mastery of the art of knife play. My hats off to you for a great demo.
SalaciousSteve: Thanks to all of you who do presentations for the Loft. We strive to provide a fun place to play that works for everyone. We truly appreciate you taking the time to spread the word and share your skills.
HandlesWithCare: I think the moment of total silence at the end of the demo spoke volumes. That was powerful stuff.
CobaltBlueSpark: if MetalWoRx was tardy in posting, I am severely behind the eightball for being pokey.Please forgive my delayed comments.
I would echo MetalWoRx’s words above. We had a lovely time, the accoutrements of the new space worked beautifully to support a demo-focused presentation (it almost feels like theater in the round!) and the event went off without a hitch! We were all so high from the demo that it felt almost impossible to come down and sleep Sunday night.
I would like to add my thanks to each person who participated and who touched this event in ways small and large. He covered pretty much everyone in his Thank You, but I’d like to reiterate how important GreenEyes42 was to the overall impact. MetalWoRx is right, she truly stepped up and gave herself for the cause. Go girl! I am proud of you, too!
I do recall saying I would get a stickie/post to Lady Leigh with helpful info, I shall do so as quickly as possible. It may take me a few days more to get around to nuts and bolts detail stuff, but I will post it as soon as I can. In the meantime if anyone has any specifics needs, just send me a private message and I will answer individually.
Once again, thank you to each and every one who attended. Your kind attentions and positive vibrations moved us to create something of which we are proud.
May Peace be with each of you.
CBS
The Loft NC by Sage
By Sage
Hello everyone,
Many of you have heard of the Loft and have been wanting someone in our group to go check it out. Well Impressa and I did just that. We went to their After New Years Bash and had a magnificent time.
We showed up about 45 minutes after the doors opened and could not hardly find a parking place. There were many cars with North Carolina license plates but there were a few cars with license plates as far away as Connecticut and Indiana. I thought that may have been due to people visiting for the holidays who had not gone home yet. The house where the event was held is a two story house in Gastonia. You go in through a downstairs door and there was a girl there to take a modest fee of $20 per person. I say modest because I have been to a few play parties where the fee was much more than that. There were approximately 30 people already there which was impressive considering it was so early in the evening.
The admission desk was adjacent to the food that was provided as part of the admission price. There were plenty of snacks from cookies and chocolates to more healthy hors dourves such as spinach wraps. The highlight of the snack table for me was the tacos with your choice of chicken or beef. We could have had dinner there the food was so plentiful. There were also soft drinks available and since this was a private event, you could bring your own alcoholic beverages.
I met the hostess of the party, Lady Leigh, in this social area. She was absolutely charming and as friendly as could be. She runs the Loft along with her partner, a former owner of a dungeon in New York City. Both of these women are beautiful and were great hostesses. We then took the nickel tour of the facilities.
Next to the social area there was a St Andrews cross set up and a device that could be used for suspension play. We then went upstairs and into the kitchen. The kitchen was fully stocked with a refrigerator and a dishwasher. The cabinets were full of glasses and dishes so if someone needed something…it was available. This set up would also work well if someone wanted to rent the entire house for a weekend, they would not want for any of the items they would find at home in their own kitchen. There was also a massage table in the kitchen area.
Off the kitchen was a deck overlooking the back yard. This was the smoking area but since I don’t smoke and it was cold and drizzling, I did not go out there.
As you rounded the corner you came to a dining room which was set up more as a lounge with numerous chairs. Many people were sitting here chatting.
Adjacent to the dining room was the living room so it was more of a great room concept. In this room a St Andrews cross was set up and a kneeling bench was next to it. Along the walls were an assortment of whips and other restraining devices that could be used by the novice who did not come with their own equipment.
On the other side of the room was a bed made up with tasteful bed coverings. It was open to the public and our guide explained that since this was a private establishment, you could use the bed for whatever you wanted including sex. She stated to just remember if you had sex, people would be watching. I am not sure if we have any exhibishionists in this group but if we do, I am sure that would delight you to be able to come off a cross and to have that option available to you.
Next to the living room was the only bathroom that I saw. It was the only private area I saw that would allow someone to change out of street clothes into fetish wear so if a wardrobe change was in order when you arrived, you may have to do it with a lot of people watching. However, there was a private office downstairs that I am sure you could use for this purpose with the permission of the wonderful owners.
All in all, I would say the ONLY drawback to the Loft was the square footage of the place. It is a house with approximately 1500 square feet and the owners of the Loft have done a magnificent job of turning it into a very good play space. It is a little cramped with a lot of people in attendance but with a smaller group, it is a wonderful play space. Lady Leigh told me that she is planning on building another play space on the property. In addition to this, work continues on the lower floor to provide more space for play.
In all, given the very positive attitude of the ladies that own the Loft and given the size of our group, I think it would be a wonderful space to have a CFS play party in.
It is also wonderful to finally have a permanent venue in the Charlotte area. My thanks to Lady Leigh and the rest of the staff at the Loft for providing Impressa and myself a wonderful evening that was definitely worth a lot more than the price of admission.
Wax as Art
The class last night for wax as an art form was wonderful and I enjoyed being able to try my hand at. Everyone at the loft has been so nice and welcoming, I wanted to say thank you.
Home away from home
This is the perfect place for getting connected and comfortable in the scene. I cannot speak highly enough of this place.
The people in the house are fantastic. As advertised, they give the best hugs with permission. The location is filled with such a good energy that I have grown comfortable enough to come out of my shell and really try all the wonderful things that I have seen at their demos. The space is perfect and well worth renting as needed, both for the secluded and private time and the wealth of great equipment to choose from. It even has a private back porch for the smokers and those who enjoy a good hard point to hang out. 😉
And the real treasure for me is the leather shop downstairs. They make lovely souvenirs of your time there, crafted with quality and care that match much of the toys you’ve tried out upstairs. I love to just lounge on the sectional sofa and embrace the soft scent of the leather waiting to be crafted into fun.
This is a home away from home for me. And I am honored to spend time here.
Review from LongShot_162
6/12/2017 – A House on Any Street in Any Town
This story begins in a town, any particular town. There are neigbhorhoods in towns and houses in the residential variety. Many of these have the same aspects – a house, a driveway, fences or woods to block the view of neighbors. Those who read this tend to have an appreciation for the privacy that is provided within. Driving along, following the GPS on the phone and our own directions when GPS fails, a particular house is found as we pull into the driveway. It is a large driveway, one which has a few cars parked already. Two stories tall, a stairway leads up to the balcony and entrance. After some time waiting in the car, we proceed up the stairs. I have the bag over my shoulders while wearing a nice dress and my sandals.
Upon entry, pleasantries are exchanged, transactions completed, and we are welcomed in. There are few people there, so we take a look around. After looking through the place, the rope comes out. My hands bound, I follow along and stay close. Southern and classic rock plays as everyone talks and jokes are made about keeping subs and pets on leashes. It is relaxing and I am already settling into a calm and comfortable state. The need for me to be anxious, to worry about the mundane, to make critical decisions has left. All I have to do is follow, feel, and do as I am told.
Bliss has begun.
After talking, after a little bit to drink, and after a few more people arrive, I am led to a cross. During this time, there have been pokes, prods, tweaks, and slaps. All of this is foreplay, signs of affection shared daily – but this time in a crowd of those who are also of our kind. At the cross, there are eyebolts, perfect for attaching cuffs to. I should know, there are a set of cuffs and connectors in the bag. Thinking is not my job at that point, as my hands are untied.
I whimper, bliss starting to fade and thoughts creeping in again – nervous ones, even as the rope sliding along my wrists drive me to distraction. It is a combination of feelings which throws me into more disarray. What is going on, why am I being untied? He isn’t breaking out cuffs or clips. Does he just want me to hold on to the cross?
Then, I feel an arm being grabbed, a rope being looped around the wrist. Finishing his work, he ties my left arm to the cross. Then, the right. My legs spread on their own, my body knows what is coming and is primed. The music is different than I am used to, but they are songs I know well. They resonate and I start to sway. As the first contact occurs, I begin to sway and sing. The warmup continues.
In the middle, hands feel along where the toys are already leaving their kiss, then one shoulder lights up from a bite. One word – “Symmetry.” as the other lights up. Then, the game starts in earnest. It goes from light floggers to heavier. Cat-5 comes out to play for a while, dragon’s tongue gets it’s lick. Each one punctuated by feeling along the affected areas. Following this, the firehose comes out.
I have had experience with the material before. Once, I made a thumper of it, encased in leather. This was firehose raw, as it was meant to be felt. Stingthuds kept hitting, high and low. Eventually, I could not tell up from down, left from right. The pain was what there was, and I was feeding off it, through a lifeline of music. I wanted more and more and more, for the experience to continue as long as it could. For Those About to Rock, Sweet Home Alabama, and so many more went through before and afterwards. Then, my body betrayed me, the ropes holding my weight as I collapsed.
As I was untied, I started to nuzzle, to ask about the cleaning cloths and wipes. I was allowed to clean the cross, I think. Then, I made my way to grab my blanket, draping it on an ottoman and curling up. The ropes did not come back on for the rest of the night, but they may as well have been there, comforting me, keeping me close to him. Later on, when I still craved more, he went for an area he had not touched, as my ass was pretty well done for the night. A breast flogging. With the hormones I’m on, they have been growing and they are sensitive. My cries were not of pain, but sheer pleasure. Growing more and more horny with every slap, I would have tried to ravish him, but for where we were.
In the end, I was curled up again, other than to get food and water. As the night went on, I stayed in a state of arousal, being teased and trying my best to carry on normal conversations with those around. Eventually, it was time to leave their home in favor of our home. On the way back and eating afterwards, fatigue set in hard. We made it home, he did a little more work on his canvas, and I fell asleep a happy Kally.
It’s amazing what happens when you find the right house in a town, yes?
Touching the face of Heaven…Why “The Loft” is so special
Disclaimer-This is not meant to be against religion…for religion…or sacreligious, don’t judge it before you read it!
Also another Disclaimer 🙂 if you have any questions in regards to The Loft, talk to the owner “Lady_Leigh”! She is one of the many people that make such a difference ^_^
A long time ago, one of my friends said that “Having an orgasm is what touching the face of heaven feels like, for one body shattering moment in time, the all over feeling and shuddering of when an orgasm hits is what heaven will feel like for an eternity…pure bliss”. I never really understood that concept until much later in my life…about ten years from when she said it.
I understand that concept today and for some reason I cannot shake these thoughts from my mind today. Ever since I got married, I have not returned to church, not even once…as sad as that sounds. Honestly I have never felt at home in any church I have been “a member of”. There has been too many judgmental people, too many people that were cruel in other places but acted like perfect Christians on Sunday morning and Wednesday nights. People that alienated you at socials just because you didn’t fit into their groups.
I was raised in church because that was how my parents were, raising me in a strict Christian, sexually repressing household. It was one of the reasons I have only been with one man. No church that I have ever been to, have I ever felt truly at home. The church I was raised in was filled with people that were 5 and 6 times my age, and then the church I transitioned to was full of “fake” acting people.
Over the years I have seen two leaders who I greatly respected excommunicated because they got a divorce, or had surgery and were out for an extended period of time. The preacher who officiated my wedding no longer has a job because he was out due to surgery.
These are just a few of the reasons I no longer go to church in a building. Don’t get me wrong, I still feel like I am close to God, and I do pray almost daily, I try to watch “Elevation” church on television because I like how Steven Furtick preaches and I don’t have to sit in this huge building with people I don’t know and listen to something I may or may not be able to apply to my own life.
So…now that I have elaborated on my views of a “church” or my experiences with ones in my past. Well it seems that my Sundays have changed drastically now that I am an adult and living independently of my families. The majority of the Sundays now, my husband and I spend a lot of time at the Loft. A place where I have “touched face of heaven” now for many times that I can’t count them anymore due to two very lovely people.
The Loft has become like a church to me, one where I am comfortable and accepted, one where I can touch the face of heaven multiple times. The door fee to me feels like a tithe. The fellowship I have had there has helped me heal more than anything. The friendships I have made have felt deeper than most of the superficial ones I have had in my past. The two people I have scened with have become like family, people who I would feel comfortable being in my most vulnerable state to.
I still have my faith 🙂 I just have a new place to “worship”. Just like a church is supposed to be, The Loft is a placed to grow, and learn, and experience. Luckily I have a very trusted mentor in Lady_Penelope7, and the wonderful owner Lady_Leigh of The Loft who have taught me so much. I look forward to my future “fellowships” because I feel like I will always have a home there.
Like the song “Closer” by Nine Inch Nails…is it wrong to feel like “fucking like an animal” has gotten me closer to God?
Thank you to Lady Leigh
It was an absolute pleasure meeting you and had a great time at The Loft. Thank you so much for your hospitality and was meaningful that you were consistently looking out for everyone and seeing how they were doing. Cant wait to get out there again and get to know some familiar faces much more.
Suspension Thank You!
Thank you for building such a wonderful rig. You are the BEST!!! We all missed you and you know there will be more rope bunny’s to come. You and Lady Leigh have created a wonderful place for people like me. The Loft has become home for so many people. I can’t describe to you in words how HIGH I was…. I am still on a HIGH! Mahalo Nui Loa Sir SalaciousSteve and Lady Leigh. I love you both dearly.
by Jobaby808
Acceptance
I received this email as a thank you for the most recent foot party and I wanted to share it as this message states exactly what the LoftNC is all about. This is my goal in a nutshell.
“Lady Leigh, thank you for the foot party. The ladies did a great job watching over me. Both are beautiful, fun ladies. Please let them know how comfortable and welcome they made me feel. i hope things are slowing down for you. You looked so tired Friday. And you still found the time to sit,talk, and be concerned about me. You are amazing. i hope the turnout for the next foot party is better and they continue. Meeting some of the other members of your fetish family makes me feel like i’m not quite so alone as i can allow all sides of me to come out. i wish i could do that more often. These few hours each month mean more than i can tell you. Thank you for allowing me into your life. The love and kindness you’ve given me means the world.”
Utilizing the Violet Wand
Barnacle Bill and I loved the education workshop “Utilizing the Violet Wand” the experience was electrifying to watch a skilled craftsman enjoy his trade….. giggles….not to early to add to your Christmas wish list…..we felt at home at The Loft. Thank you to those who made us feel at home and everyone who added to a delightful afternoon. It was appreciated and enjoyed by us both.
Thank you!
St Patrick’s Day Social
Oh no you didn’t!!! Another fantastic social. Several new first: Irish green rope bracelets and collars, red rum, stopping her from crawling up the cross, teaming up until she coo’ed herself into erotic subspace, glow-stick florentine, and spanking the Masochist Rosie Red derrière for one last coo. I love this group, Lot’s of love and hugs.
And of course, flirting with my favorite Domme (love and kisses)
Rope Bite
We had a great time at class today. It was wonderful to see everyone and LeeDavid was great. We learned a lot and can’t wait to start practicing
I’d like to thank the staff at the LoftNC for the fabulous hosting job and all the folks that came out to class to share in our passion for rope bondage; it was most rewarding to see how engaged you were in the material and the way we presented it.
I just wanted to say thank you on mine and my pets behalf for a wonderful class tonight and meeting new people. It looks like a wonderful place and I hope we are welcomed to come out and make another event.
I just want to say “Thank you” to Lady Leigh and The Loft for encouraging me to come to today’s Rope Bite session. The hospitality was heart warming and everyone there was very welcoming and helpful.
I didn’t go to the rope class but I have been to The Loft NC once and I agree, everyone there is absolutely awesome!! Very welcoming, fun and a great experience! I would definitely recommend The Loft to anyone!
Inspired Rope Bite – Jan ’13
I’m truly impressed by what you guys are building there and the pure intent with which you are doing it.
I wish you great success, and am proud to call you my friends
SalaciousSteve This event was over the top for me. Lady Leigh and I are reveling in all of these events seeing new friends learn more about what we all love is always fun. But for me it was even better re connecting with some old friends that I haven’t seen in awhile, catching up and introducing them to my new friends was what I enjoyed the most. The Loft seems to have some special energy.
DerrickDude I thoroughly enjoyed yesterday and had a great time. I mean who doesn’t like seeing their sub wife tied up by a Rope Master with the talents of PheonixEddy??? Loved meeting your old friends Steve. Can’t wait to see them again and get to know them more. I also enjoyed being a part of a first at The Loft, having two lovely submissives tied to a cross while their two Masters played tag team flogging and paddling. That was alot of fun.
Winters_Raine @Derricksude Sir i can not agree more! This was an awesome class! Thank You so much for helping my Master and i. As well as allowing Jobaby and myself grow together!
What a lovely thing to hear!
I know MetalWoRx will be very pleased to see this when He gets in from work tonight!
We enjoyed ourselves so very much, the energy present just fueling a topic about which MetalWoRx and I are quite passionate.
The Loft has been on our To Do List for some time, with circumstances always keeping us away. Yesterday was spectacular! You all did such a lovely job from the yummy food to the welcoming, safe space to present and play. Folks were inquisitive, open minded, exuberant and friendly. Great Energy! What a home run of excellence!
Thank you for inviting us! We shall be returning again and again, I’m sure.
Peace
CobaltBlueSpark