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Welcome to our new Skills Class lovingly named “Impact Church”. This has been a class that we’ve thought of for awhile and now is the time to offer this to …

You hear so much about negotiation and how important it is for your safety.  Negotiations play a huge role in what it is that we do, both lifestyle and vanilla.  …

My opinion on the subject is this: 50 Shades is a romance. It’s not a great literary work but it’s entertaining for what it is and it opened a lot …

“I think sex, gender and sexuality isn’t just split in two, one or the other. I see gender and sexuality as a form of art, free from rules or commentary …

“I believe that when you are in a dominant position, in any aspect of life, that you have great responsibility to your subordinates. It is not an opportunity to “do …

by Regi-_S Original Post Although, known to many as “Master” Regi-, I have to confess that, after many years in a relation with one that I love, I have come to …

When I first started scening I was focused on what I was doing… What implements I used, the bottom, where my strikes were landing. Those things are still very important …

RED FLAGS! Any one or two of these might be explained, but if you start to see a pattern, the things below are RED FLAGS for which to watch out. …

A Suggestion Wow, you have found this place called fetlife… and this thing called kink/bdsm. How fucking cool is that. Here are women, real women who post pics of themselves, …

Yesterday on the way to one of the munches I lead, I got stuck in my driveway. Yes it was probably not the smartest idea that I was driving my …