Power Exchange Doesn’t Run on Instinct — It Runs on Conversation Here is something Lady Leigh has observed across decades in the BDSM community: the people who struggle most in …
The Art and History of Rope Bondage — And Why We Teach It There is a moment in every Rope Bite class when someone picks up the rope for the …
If you’ve been hearing the words “polyamory” and “ethical non-monogamy” more often lately — in conversations, on social media, in books and podcasts — you’re not imagining things. These relationship …
Walking into a BDSM social club for the first time can feel like visiting a foreign country where you don’t speak the language. At The LoftNC, we believe education is …
Whether you are a seasoned heavy-hitter or someone just entering the “Impact Church” for the first time, you’ve likely felt—or held—a paddle. But where did this staple of the dungeon …
Welcome to our new Skills Class lovingly named “Impact Church”. This has been a class that we’ve thought of for awhile and now is the time to offer this to …
You hear so much about negotiation and how important it is for your safety. Negotiations play a huge role in what it is that we do, both lifestyle and vanilla. …
My opinion on the subject is this: 50 Shades is a romance. It’s not a great literary work but it’s entertaining for what it is and it opened a lot …
“I think sex, gender and sexuality isn’t just split in two, one or the other. I see gender and sexuality as a form of art, free from rules or commentary …
“I believe that when you are in a dominant position, in any aspect of life, that you have great responsibility to your subordinates. It is not an opportunity to “do …