“I believe that when you are in a dominant position, in any aspect of life, that you have great responsibility to your subordinates. It is not an opportunity to “do whatever”, but a requirement to lead, be supportive, nurture and encourage. That includes demanding that subordinates tell you what they …
by Regi-_S Original Post Although, known to many as “Master” Regi-, I have to confess that, after many years in a relation with one that I love, I have come to realize that I am indeed, the more submissive one! Now, I proudly admit it and wish to share this news …
When I first started scening I was focused on what I was doing… What implements I used, the bottom, where my strikes were landing. Those things are still very important but over time, I’ve learned how important touch is. I have become freer with using my hands and body for …
RED FLAGS! Any one or two of these might be explained, but if you start to see a pattern, the things below are RED FLAGS for which to watch out. If anyone……submissive, Dom, switch, or kinkster; 1) Tries to separate you from your friends, family or BDSM community. (Not allowing …
A Suggestion Wow, you have found this place called fetlife… and this thing called kink/bdsm. How fucking cool is that. Here are women, real women who post pics of themselves, some are naked, some are having sex and some are tied up or being beaten. The have fetish list a …
by -sugarbritches Being transgender is complicated but has opened my eyes to a phenomenon I had not realized even existed; that is male privilege. Don’t get me wrong, I knew of the term even though the definition was never made clear to me, in fact I don’t think I know a …
I’ve never been drawn to the ‘Knight in Shining Armour’ or the ‘Prince Charming’. I’m much happier in the company of Dragons, or one Dragon in particular, I should say. So while I can’t compile a list of traits that a Dragon, or indeed a Dom should have: I can …
1. That life isn’t binary. Sometimes she will have other things she needs to put first. Sometimes I have other things I need to put first. It may be health, it may be work, it may be family. It doesn’t really matter which. What matters is that when we are …