by -sugarbritches Being transgender is complicated but has opened my eyes to a phenomenon I had not realized even existed; that is male privilege. Don’t get me wrong, I knew of the term even though the definition was never made clear to me, in fact I don’t think I know a …
I’ve never been drawn to the ‘Knight in Shining Armour’ or the ‘Prince Charming’. I’m much happier in the company of Dragons, or one Dragon in particular, I should say. So while I can’t compile a list of traits that a Dragon, or indeed a Dom should have: I can …
1. That life isn’t binary. Sometimes she will have other things she needs to put first. Sometimes I have other things I need to put first. It may be health, it may be work, it may be family. It doesn’t really matter which. What matters is that when we are …
by Howwwlnwulf So you have embraced your inner caveman and cavewoman and want to play with fire. What is it that excites you about this kind of play? Fire affects all of us on a very base emotional level. It both fascinates and terrifies. As such it is no wonder fire …
Polyamory: Best Books & Resources You have the right, without shame, blame or guilt: In all intimate relationships: -to be free from coercion, violence and intimidation -to choose the level of involvement and intimacy you want -to revoke consent to any form of intimacy at any time -to be told …
WRITTEN BY RIVERDALE GODDESS. . . I spent last night counseling a submissive who is thinking about leaving her collar. She expressed such complete devotion to her Dominant but doubt in his ability to hold her was creating a space for her leaving. It can be so beautiful, the devotion …
At the LoftNC, we teach and talk a lot about consent. We strongly express that consent is a YES – only positive consent is consent. No is NO and Maybe is NO. This article further illustrates this teaching and I wanted to share parts of it here and a link …
• Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #1 – ‘Communication’ • Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #2 – ‘Triggers’ • Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #3 – ‘Actions On – Dealing with a seizure’ • Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #4 – ‘Control’ • Epilepsy and BDSM – …
She. Stands very still. Watching him flit about from place to place. Absentmindedly playing with the keys. Her finger rubs the cool metal and trace every detail of the ridged edges. he. Hears the light jingle of the keys. Like a mating call he is lured to it. Taking a …
