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Fire Play

by Lady Leigh October 9, 2016

by Howwwlnwulf So you have embraced your inner caveman and cavewoman and want to play with fire. What is it that excites you about this kind of play? Fire affects all of us on a very base emotional level. It both fascinates and terrifies. As such it is no wonder fire …

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Relationship Bill of Rights

by Lady Leigh September 9, 2016

Polyamory: Best Books & Resources You have the right, without shame, blame or guilt: In all intimate relationships: -to be free from coercion, violence and intimidation -to choose the level of involvement and intimacy you want -to revoke consent to any form of intimacy at any time -to be told …

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Warning to Dominants – Don’t Lose your Submissive

by Lady Leigh September 9, 2016

WRITTEN BY RIVERDALE GODDESS. . . I spent last night counseling a submissive who is thinking about leaving her collar. She expressed such complete devotion to her Dominant but doubt in his ability to hold her was creating a space for her leaving. It can be so beautiful, the devotion …

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September 9, 2016
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Here’s how I explain sexual consent…

by Lady Leigh August 9, 2016

At the LoftNC, we teach and talk a lot about consent.  We strongly express that consent is a YES – only positive consent is consent.  No is NO and Maybe is NO.  This article further illustrates this teaching and I wanted to share parts of it here and a link …

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August 9, 2016
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Epilepsy

by Lady Leigh August 9, 2016

• Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #1 – ‘Communication’ • Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #2 – ‘Triggers’ • Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #3 – ‘Actions On – Dealing with a seizure’ • Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #4 – ‘Control’ • Epilepsy and BDSM – …

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Why the caged bird sings…

by Lady Leigh July 9, 2016

She. Stands very still. Watching him flit about from place to place. Absentmindedly playing with the keys. Her finger rubs the cool metal and trace every detail of the ridged edges. he. Hears the light jingle of the keys. Like a mating call he is lured to it. Taking a …

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July 9, 2016
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Bottoming to Bookcase

by Lady Leigh May 9, 2016

This book case….from Sauder, Model Number 410890, looked pretty good, all packed up in a nice box with a beautiful pictuer of assembled picture of the said bookcase, complete with books, vase and picture frame on the shelves. I needed a book case for my office. So, I bought this …

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May 9, 2016
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Loneliness and Listening

by Lady Leigh May 9, 2016

Ah loneliness, it’s been quite sometime since we’ve spend time together. I’ve tried to keep you at bay. I’ve kept myself busy. I haven’t answered when you come calling. Yet, somehow, you’ve managed to slip into my life again. I can feel your cool fingers interlaced with mine as I …

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May 9, 2016
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How do you discuss limits with a stranger?

by Lady Leigh April 9, 2016

by Cowhideman,, https://fetlife.com/users/76887 What do you do when someone asks in their very first contact message, something like “What are you into?” or if after a couple of exchanged messages, wants you to share a complete list of hard and soft limits and a shopping list of fetish activities that you …

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Assent Matters

by Lady Leigh April 9, 2016

Okay, there’s a 600lb gorilla in the room, and I’m done pretending it’s not there. What we do isn’t pretty or politically correct, and frankly, it’s dangerous if we can’t get (and stay) honest about the reality of it. So here it is as raw and real and un-PC as it is: …

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