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Promoting Tolerance

by Lady Leigh July 9, 2015

This post may seem abrupt, but I feel that certain things need to be said in an abrupt manner to get the point across. I have seen on many social media sights (not just this one) how conversations can go south very quickly due to misinterpretations. So should someone post …

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July 9, 2015
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Journaling

by Lady Leigh July 9, 2015

These questions are looking for opinions from the perspective of both the Dominant who requires the journaling by his submissive and the submissive who does the journaling. 1. What is the purpose of the journaling? 2. Can you say anything you want without fear of repercussion? 3. Would you say …

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July 9, 2015
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Acid Tests for True Dominants

by Lady Leigh July 9, 2015

Introduction The term ‘Acid Test’ is an old prospecting term. A powerful acid can dissolve most base metals in a matter of minutes. However, gold will stand up to most acids. So the ‘Acid Test’ was an easy way for people to make sure they had a real nugget of …

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July 9, 2015
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Some Facts about Consent

by Lady Leigh June 9, 2015

During the last several months, my local community and the scene at large has had a number of issues regarding consent violation, assault, and generally predatory behavior. In the wake of these instances, I’ve seen a lot of discussions of consent and in the course of those discussions I’ve seen …

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June 9, 2015
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The Tale of My Daughters’ Penises

by Lady Leigh June 9, 2015

We’ve been getting a lot of packages, recently. Friends have been sending cookies, cards, groceries, shoes, books, and (of course!) toys for the kids. Their favorite package so far contained these stretchy, blinking, yoyo animal things. There was one for each of the girls. I distributed a bunny to RH, …

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June 9, 2015
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Caring for a brat. (Innermind’s continued guide to training a brat).

by Lady Leigh May 9, 2015

You’re the proud owner of a brat! Hurray! But before you celebrate and douse her with champagne in a frantic celebration and take her home to make her yours, forever and ever. There’s a few key rules you must follow in order to properly care for a brat and avoid …

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May 9, 2015
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The Marks We Leave Behind

by Lady Leigh April 9, 2015

Bruises, welts, marks and tears are just a few things I can induce from a good scene. These are physical tokens that I can leave to mark the moment and to display a reminder, that even days later will attest to my presence of where my hands have been. But …

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April 9, 2015
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Owned (“You are mine”)

by Lady Leigh April 9, 2015

He saw her across the room And scanned her slowly From head to toe She was not what an ordinary man Would call classically beautiful But then He was no ordinary man Despite her expensive suit, high heels and hose He took note of the grey in hair The wrinkles …

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April 9, 2015
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Vulnerability & Responsibility

by Lady Leigh April 9, 2015

When someone makes themselves vulnerable to you, physically, mentally and emotionally, then that creates a responsibility for you to ensure that you protect their well being to the best of your ability. The more power they yeild to you, the greater your obligation to look after them is. I have …

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April 9, 2015
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Are you a wannabee?

by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015

You Might Be A Wannabe (Doms) If you ever use the phrase “A real sub wouldn’t have a problem doing that”… you might be a Wannabe If you think the word “submissive” means the same thing as “easy”… you might be a Wannabe If you think leading your sub around …

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March 9, 2015
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