*It should be noted that there is no “One True Way”. No matter what side of the slash you are on, you have to define your needs, your wants, and your limits. This includes the type of relationship you are looking for and how you wish to live within it. …
This post may seem abrupt, but I feel that certain things need to be said in an abrupt manner to get the point across. I have seen on many social media sights (not just this one) how conversations can go south very quickly due to misinterpretations. So should someone post …
These questions are looking for opinions from the perspective of both the Dominant who requires the journaling by his submissive and the submissive who does the journaling. 1. What is the purpose of the journaling? 2. Can you say anything you want without fear of repercussion? 3. Would you say …
Introduction The term ‘Acid Test’ is an old prospecting term. A powerful acid can dissolve most base metals in a matter of minutes. However, gold will stand up to most acids. So the ‘Acid Test’ was an easy way for people to make sure they had a real nugget of …
During the last several months, my local community and the scene at large has had a number of issues regarding consent violation, assault, and generally predatory behavior. In the wake of these instances, I’ve seen a lot of discussions of consent and in the course of those discussions I’ve seen …
We’ve been getting a lot of packages, recently. Friends have been sending cookies, cards, groceries, shoes, books, and (of course!) toys for the kids. Their favorite package so far contained these stretchy, blinking, yoyo animal things. There was one for each of the girls. I distributed a bunny to RH, …
You’re the proud owner of a brat! Hurray! But before you celebrate and douse her with champagne in a frantic celebration and take her home to make her yours, forever and ever. There’s a few key rules you must follow in order to properly care for a brat and avoid …
Bruises, welts, marks and tears are just a few things I can induce from a good scene. These are physical tokens that I can leave to mark the moment and to display a reminder, that even days later will attest to my presence of where my hands have been. But …
He saw her across the room And scanned her slowly From head to toe She was not what an ordinary man Would call classically beautiful But then He was no ordinary man Despite her expensive suit, high heels and hose He took note of the grey in hair The wrinkles …