This is an article I wrote for “Power Lines” back in 1998, it’s somewhat dated now but I’m still surprised how many requests I get to repost it. Since I …
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This is an article I wrote for “Power Lines” back in 1998, it’s somewhat dated now but I’m still surprised how many requests I get to repost it. Since I …
1. Most women that post pics of their feet aren’t interested in meeting you or fulfilling your fantasies On Fetlife if your not able to see a woman above her …
I’m not a patient person. I don’t have any problem admitting that to you. When I really want something, I don’t want to wait for it. My mindset is that I’m going …
Imagine if you felt what other people felt. Imagine intuitively knowing where people come from. Imagine seeing people for who they really are (whether they can see themselves or not). …
Okay, I’ll go ahead and admit that I stacked the deck in part I of this post. I deliberately put most of the myths I figured a lot of people …
In my not-so-humble opinion, there are a lot of myths about consent and negotiation that float around our subculture. There are so many, in fact, that once I started writing …
Compatibility is a crucial component of a successful relationship. Communication ranks right up there with it. Face it, if you both love liver (shudder) but you assume your partner doesn’t …
Come as you are, just exactly as you are. You are perfect in your brokenness, with your distrust of others, with your psychological disorders. You are perfect with your peculiarities, …
I recently gave a lecture on this at True Desires as Maitresse Renee has us give a lot of really helpful and educational classes to the slaves so they leave …
This was her first time. There had been many firsts since coming to live with Master, some of them a little scarey, most of them a real turn-on, but all …