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Lady Leigh is the owner of The LoftNC and a regionally respected educator and leader in the BDSM/kink community, with decades of experience in safe practice, consent education, and community building in the greater Charlotte area.

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    The Acid Tests (Sorting real Tops from fakers)

    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2015

    This is an article I wrote for “Power Lines” back in 1998, it’s somewhat dated now but I’m still surprised how many requests I get to repost it. Since I …

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    Advice for Footmen

    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2015

    1. Most women that post pics of their feet aren’t interested in meeting you or fulfilling your fantasies On Fetlife if your not able to see a woman above her …

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    Immediacy is Not Intimacy!

    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2015

    I’m not a patient person. I don’t have any problem admitting that to you. When I really want something, I don’t want to wait for it. My mindset is that I’m going …

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    The Emotional Empath & Submission

    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2015

    Imagine if you felt what other people felt. Imagine intuitively knowing where people come from. Imagine seeing people for who they really are (whether they can see themselves or not). …

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    Negotiation and Consent Myths, Part 2

    by Lady Leigh October 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh October 9, 2015

    Okay, I’ll go ahead and admit that I stacked the deck in part I of this post. I deliberately put most of the myths I figured a lot of people …

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    Negotiation and Consent Myths, Part 1

    by Lady Leigh October 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh October 9, 2015

    In my not-so-humble opinion, there are a lot of myths about consent and negotiation that float around our subculture. There are so many, in fact, that once I started writing …

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    How can I make them be the perv of my dreams?

    by Lady Leigh October 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh October 9, 2015

    Compatibility is a crucial component of a successful relationship. Communication ranks right up there with it. Face it, if you both love liver (shudder) but you assume your partner doesn’t …

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    Come as You Are

    by Lady Leigh September 11, 2015
    by Lady Leigh September 11, 2015

    Come as you are, just exactly as you are. You are perfect in your brokenness, with your distrust of others, with your psychological disorders. You are perfect with your peculiarities, …

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    Take care of yourselves

    by Lady Leigh September 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh September 9, 2015

    I recently gave a lecture on this at True Desires as Maitresse Renee has us give a lot of really helpful and educational classes to the slaves so they leave …

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    The Ride

    by Lady Leigh September 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh September 9, 2015

    This was her first time. There had been many firsts since coming to live with Master, some of them a little scarey, most of them a real turn-on, but all …

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