Okay, there’s a 600lb gorilla in the room, and I’m done pretending it’s not there. What we do isn’t pretty or politically correct, and frankly, it’s dangerous if we can’t get (and …
The sheer scope of selfishness I encounter daily truly still shocks me. It seems our humanity is chipped away as we strive for more things, more prestige, more power, more …
Yes – you – the one sitting in front of your computer screen, reading these posts and wondering if you can ever be involved. You can. Yes – you. I …
1. Submission isn’t as easy as it looks. There is so much more to submitting than knowing how to cook, clean, and follow directions. You will have to let go …
1. Dominating isn’t as easy as it looks. There’s much more to it than just sternly giving out orders. You should really be capable of doing the things you command …
Disclaimer: This is long and winding and somewhat disjointed. It is also going to upset some people. Consent is a difficult topic to discuss due to the stigma surrounding consent …
Protocols aren’t for everyone.. Some people find them to be tedious, while others see them as the very essence of D/s. For those of us that do enjoy protocols, they …
This is the first formal training exercise I do with new submisives. Its part of my protocol training. It’s also an effective and fun way to transition from vanilla or “just …
“Isn’t that what I’m supposed to do?” “I just thought that was what I was supposed to do.” “I just thought that’s what was expected of me. Isn’t it?” I’ve …
One night after a long play session we were sitting on the couch talking. She stretched her legs across my lap and I began rubbing her feet. She smiled, sighed, …