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Yes – you – the one sitting in front of your computer screen, reading these posts and wondering if you can ever be involved. You can. Yes – you. I …
1. Submission isn’t as easy as it looks. There is so much more to submitting than knowing how to cook, clean, and follow directions. You will have to let go …
1. Dominating isn’t as easy as it looks. There’s much more to it than just sternly giving out orders. You should really be capable of doing the things you command …
Disclaimer: This is long and winding and somewhat disjointed. It is also going to upset some people. Consent is a difficult topic to discuss due to the stigma surrounding consent …
Protocols aren’t for everyone.. Some people find them to be tedious, while others see them as the very essence of D/s. For those of us that do enjoy protocols, they …
This is the first formal training exercise I do with new submisives. Its part of my protocol training. It’s also an effective and fun way to transition from vanilla or “just …
“Isn’t that what I’m supposed to do?” “I just thought that was what I was supposed to do.” “I just thought that’s what was expected of me. Isn’t it?” I’ve …
One night after a long play session we were sitting on the couch talking. She stretched her legs across my lap and I began rubbing her feet. She smiled, sighed, …
Recommended Reading Please keep in mind that all of these books and articles were written by fallible human beings, each with their own background and biases. Do not take any …
I love to have sensual, passionate make out sessions with a really cute sub who really knows how to kiss, submissively… I will bring my lips close to hers, but …