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Lady Leigh is the owner of The LoftNC and a regionally respected educator and leader in the BDSM/kink community, with decades of experience in safe practice, consent education, and community building in the greater Charlotte area.

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    Relationship Bill of Rights

    by Lady Leigh September 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh September 9, 2016

    Polyamory: Best Books & Resources You have the right, without shame, blame or guilt: In all intimate relationships: -to be free from coercion, violence and intimidation -to choose the level …

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    Warning to Dominants – Don’t Lose your Submissive

    by Lady Leigh September 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh September 9, 2016

    WRITTEN BY RIVERDALE GODDESS. . . I spent last night counseling a submissive who is thinking about leaving her collar. She expressed such complete devotion to her Dominant but doubt …

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    Here’s how I explain sexual consent…

    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2016

    At the LoftNC, we teach and talk a lot about consent.  We strongly express that consent is a YES – only positive consent is consent.  No is NO and Maybe …

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    Epilepsy

    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2016

    • Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #1 – ‘Communication’ • Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #2 – ‘Triggers’ • Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #3 – ‘Actions …

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    Why the caged bird sings…

    by Lady Leigh July 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh July 9, 2016

    She. Stands very still. Watching him flit about from place to place. Absentmindedly playing with the keys. Her finger rubs the cool metal and trace every detail of the ridged …

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    Bottoming to Bookcase

    by Lady Leigh May 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh May 9, 2016

    This book case….from Sauder, Model Number 410890, looked pretty good, all packed up in a nice box with a beautiful pictuer of assembled picture of the said bookcase, complete with …

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    Loneliness and Listening

    by Lady Leigh May 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh May 9, 2016

    Ah loneliness, it’s been quite sometime since we’ve spend time together. I’ve tried to keep you at bay. I’ve kept myself busy. I haven’t answered when you come calling. Yet, …

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    How do you discuss limits with a stranger?

    by Lady Leigh April 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh April 9, 2016

    by Cowhideman,, https://fetlife.com/users/76887 What do you do when someone asks in their very first contact message, something like “What are you into?” or if after a couple of exchanged messages, wants …

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    Assent Matters

    by Lady Leigh April 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh April 9, 2016

    Okay, there’s a 600lb gorilla in the room, and I’m done pretending it’s not there. What we do isn’t pretty or politically correct, and frankly, it’s dangerous if we can’t get (and …

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    A Firm Foundation

    by Lady Leigh April 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh April 9, 2016

    The sheer scope of selfishness I encounter daily truly still shocks me. It seems our humanity is chipped away as we strive for more things, more prestige, more power, more …

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