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Lady Leigh

Lady Leigh is the owner of The LoftNC and a regionally respected educator and leader in the BDSM/kink community, with decades of experience in safe practice, consent education, and community building in the greater Charlotte area.

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    My Master!

    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2018
    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2018

    by Regi-_S Original Post Although, known to many as “Master” Regi-, I have to confess that, after many years in a relation with one that I love, I have come to …

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    The Power of Touch

    by Lady Leigh April 28, 2017
    by Lady Leigh April 28, 2017

    When I first started scening I was focused on what I was doing… What implements I used, the bottom, where my strikes were landing. Those things are still very important …

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    Red Flags for Relationships (BDSM or Vanilla)

    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2017
    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2017

    RED FLAGS! Any one or two of these might be explained, but if you start to see a pattern, the things below are RED FLAGS for which to watch out. …

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    How to Message a person on Fetlife

    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2017
    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2017

    A Suggestion Wow, you have found this place called fetlife… and this thing called kink/bdsm. How fucking cool is that. Here are women, real women who post pics of themselves, …

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    Downhill slide… Illusion of Stability

    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2017
    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2017

    Yesterday on the way to one of the munches I lead, I got stuck in my driveway. Yes it was probably not the smartest idea that I was driving my …

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    2017 Points to Ponder

    by Lady Leigh January 1, 2017
    by Lady Leigh January 1, 2017

    1. The most important person in your life is the person(s) who agreed to share their life with you. Treat them as such. 2. You might live a long life, …

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    Male Privilege / Female Disadvantage

    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2016

    by -sugarbritches Being transgender is complicated but has opened my eyes to a phenomenon I had not realized even existed; that is male privilege. Don’t get me wrong, I knew of …

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    Keep your Shining Knights, I’ll take the Dragon!

    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2016

    I’ve never been drawn to the ‘Knight in Shining Armour’ or the ‘Prince Charming’. I’m much happier in the company of Dragons, or one Dragon in particular, I should say. …

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    Ten things this Dominant expects his Submissive to know without being told…

    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2016

    1. That life isn’t binary. Sometimes she will have other things she needs to put first. Sometimes I have other things I need to put first. It may be health, …

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    Fire Play

    by Lady Leigh October 9, 2016
    by Lady Leigh October 9, 2016

    by Howwwlnwulf So you have embraced your inner caveman and cavewoman and want to play with fire. What is it that excites you about this kind of play? Fire affects all …

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