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Lady Leigh

Lady Leigh

Lady Leigh is the owner of The LoftNC and a regionally respected educator and leader in the BDSM/kink community, with decades of experience in safe practice, consent education, and community building in the greater Charlotte area.

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    10 Leather Protocol Lessons I learned from Outlaw Bikers…

    by Lady Leigh September 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh September 9, 2015

    Despite being a punk rock artist, I was around a lot of “biker” culture growing up. My father rides a harley. My grandparents were post-war MC members in the late …

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    To the Nice Guys

    by Lady Leigh August 27, 2015
    by Lady Leigh August 27, 2015

    I was going to write a rant today about cheating piles of shit preaching to men and giving them advice on how to “talk to” women. I was going to …

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    What a Professional Mistress is and is not

    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015

    1) First and foremost, she is a business women! She is providing a service, usually to make a living, just like any other store or service provider. Some of them …

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    Red Flags in Relationships

    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015

    There’s an old saying that “Good judgment comes from experience. Unfortunately, experience comes from bad judgment.” I teach this class for two reasons. One, to – hopefully – keep you …

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    If you ever wondered what rope sluts think about

    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015

    Oh I cut myself – can I get a bondage please? ‘Mum, I’m going to a macramé workshop for the weekend’ …yeah, that should work. I’m really starting to get …

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    Doms are Like Toddlers

    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015

    Their two favorite words are “no” and “now.” They must always get their way. ALWAYS. They DO NOT like being spanked. They beat the crap out of their toys. They …

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    Polyamory: So What Is Couple Privilege, Anyway?

    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015

    This article was linked on Fetlife and I thought the information and thoughts the author invoked were invaluable for anyone considering or engaging in poly dynamics.  Article/journal entry shared here …

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    Geoff’s Mentoring Rules

    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2015

    Mentoring…(rules???) Rule #1 – If they want to have sex with you, THEY ARE NOT A MENTOR. Rule #1a – If you want to have sex with them, YOU AREN’T LOOKING FOR …

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    Top 20 things if considering BDSM or Kink

    by Lady Leigh July 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh July 9, 2015

    *It should be noted that there is no “One True Way”. No matter what side of the slash you are on, you have to define your needs, your wants, and …

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    Promoting Tolerance

    by Lady Leigh July 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh July 9, 2015

    This post may seem abrupt, but I feel that certain things need to be said in an abrupt manner to get the point across. I have seen on many social …

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