This is a post I found and wanted to share.1. Know your Responsibilities. Dominants have responsibilities. We hear a LOT about that in our community. We have the responsibility to be forgiving and understanding. We have the responsibility to be strong and independent. We have the responsibility to be wise …
Like it? Have it bookmarked? Saved a copy? Share it Original Blog Post PonyGroom: “Can I ask you a question about being in an ‘open’ marriage?” After the millionth time of answering questions from salivating dudebros on OKC wanting to know all the tabloidesque details of my “open marriage”, I …
Do not distract or disturb the players. This goes for when you see people preparing for a scene (Tops and bottoms both need time to prepare and get their head space ready), while in a scene and also after while they are doing aftercare. If you think someone is playing …
For all new Doms/Dommes and subs alike, here are a few standard rules to make your transition into online D/s a safer, happier one. 1. You do not have to answer ever private messages that you get. Should you get one that is vulgar, rude or harassing, simply use the …
In light of the tension in the group recently, I thought I would start a thread about the positive things Pro-Domination has provided in your life. I’ll start: I’ve met some amazing people, some who have become friends I paid off my student loans (125k Yay!) I gained a sense …
Good people carry scars on their hearts. Sometimes they are self-inflicted. Sometimes fear and distrust lead to mental cutting, and the wounded heart grows darker and even less vulnerable. But they usually didn’t start that way. The first cuts were at the hands of those who didn’t deserve the trust …
Technology: NEW PASSWORD REQUIRED User: My usual password is not working suddenly, why? Website chat assistant: Your password has expired – you must register a new one. User: Why do I need a new one as that one was working fine? Website: you must get a new one as they …
1. You have unresolved issues from childhood. You were abused, molested, beaten up, bullied, neglected, etc. Your parents didn’t love you and you feel undeserving of love. Because of your past experiences you think that you deserve to be beaten, degraded, used and treated badly by others. 2. If you’re …
10 Key Qualities for an Exceptional Dom Posted by Master Arcane February-6-2009 An excellent Dom buddy of mine wrote me to ask what I thought were the 10 Essential Qualities of a Fine Dom. In my estimation, these are Ten Essential Traits that any existing or prospective Dom needs to …