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The Myths of BDSM

by Lady Leigh March 9, 2014

1. You have unresolved issues from childhood. You were abused, molested, beaten up, bullied, neglected, etc. Your parents didn’t love you and you feel undeserving of love. Because of your past experiences you think that you deserve to be beaten, degraded, used and treated badly by others. 2. If you’re …

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March 9, 2014
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10 Key Qualities for an Exceptional Dom

by Lady Leigh January 9, 2014

10 Key Qualities for an Exceptional Dom Posted by Master Arcane February-6-2009 An excellent Dom buddy of mine wrote me to ask what I thought were the 10 Essential Qualities of a Fine Dom. In my estimation, these are Ten Essential Traits that any existing or prospective Dom needs to …

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January 9, 2014
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The endorphin levels in BDSM- A short primer on sending a submissive into hyperspace!!

by Lady Leigh January 9, 2014

Enjoy reading!! Although everyone into the BDSM scene has heard of endorphins, actually very, very few people really understand what they are, how they work, what the “high” is all about and how one can correctly induce the body to produce them. This short primer will answer those questions, and …

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January 9, 2014
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Why I Don’t Give Presentations

by Lady Leigh January 9, 2014

reposted with permission from Reign Having been in the Austin kink scene for about 12 years now, I occasionally am asked why I don’t do presentations. It’s an unspoken rite of passage that, at some point, you will get up in front of your fellow perverts at one of the education-oriented …

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January 9, 2014
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If you want to play with me, you must wear a pink tutu!

by Lady Leigh January 9, 2014

Well, no. Not really. That doesn’t actually happen to be my personal kink. But because it illustrates a goddamn important point, bear with me for a few minutes while we pretend that this is, in fact, my kink. No disrespect intended to the folks who do consider a delicately rose-hued, …

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