Contributed Writings

I’m not a patient person. I don’t have any problem admitting that to you. When I really want something, I don’t want to wait for it. My mindset is that I’m going …

Imagine if you felt what other people felt. Imagine intuitively knowing where people come from. Imagine seeing people for who they really are (whether they can see themselves or not). …

Okay, I’ll go ahead and admit that I stacked the deck in part I of this post. I deliberately put most of the myths I figured a lot of people …

In my not-so-humble opinion, there are a lot of myths about consent and negotiation that float around our subculture. There are so many, in fact, that once I started writing …

Compatibility is a crucial component of a successful relationship. Communication ranks right up there with it. Face it, if you both love liver (shudder) but you assume your partner doesn’t …

Come as you are, just exactly as you are. You are perfect in your brokenness, with your distrust of others, with your psychological disorders. You are perfect with your peculiarities, …

I recently gave a lecture on this at True Desires as Maitresse Renee has us give a lot of really helpful and educational classes to the slaves so they leave …

Despite being a punk rock artist, I was around a lot of “biker” culture growing up. My father rides a harley. My grandparents were post-war MC members in the late …

I was going to write a rant today about cheating piles of shit preaching to men and giving them advice on how to “talk to” women. I was going to …

1) First and foremost, she is a business women! She is providing a service, usually to make a living, just like any other store or service provider. Some of them …