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    Red Flags in Relationships

    by loftnc@gmail.com August 9, 2015
    by loftnc@gmail.com August 9, 2015

    There’s an old saying that “Good judgment comes from experience. Unfortunately, experience comes from bad judgment.” I teach this class for two reasons. One, to – hopefully – keep you …

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    If you ever wondered what rope sluts think about

    by loftnc@gmail.com August 9, 2015
    by loftnc@gmail.com August 9, 2015

    Oh I cut myself – can I get a bondage please? ‘Mum, I’m going to a macramé workshop for the weekend’ …yeah, that should work. I’m really starting to get …

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    Doms are Like Toddlers

    by loftnc@gmail.com August 9, 2015
    by loftnc@gmail.com August 9, 2015

    Their two favorite words are “no” and “now.” They must always get their way. ALWAYS. They DO NOT like being spanked. They beat the crap out of their toys. They …

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    Polyamory: So What Is Couple Privilege, Anyway?

    by loftnc@gmail.com August 9, 2015
    by loftnc@gmail.com August 9, 2015

    This article was linked on Fetlife and I thought the information and thoughts the author invoked were invaluable for anyone considering or engaging in poly dynamics.  Article/journal entry shared here …

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    Geoff’s Mentoring Rules

    by loftnc@gmail.com August 9, 2015
    by loftnc@gmail.com August 9, 2015

    Mentoring…(rules???) Rule #1 – If they want to have sex with you, THEY ARE NOT A MENTOR. Rule #1a – If you want to have sex with them, YOU AREN’T LOOKING FOR …

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    Top 20 things if considering BDSM or Kink

    by loftnc@gmail.com July 9, 2015
    by loftnc@gmail.com July 9, 2015

    *It should be noted that there is no “One True Way”. No matter what side of the slash you are on, you have to define your needs, your wants, and …

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    Promoting Tolerance

    by loftnc@gmail.com July 9, 2015
    by loftnc@gmail.com July 9, 2015

    This post may seem abrupt, but I feel that certain things need to be said in an abrupt manner to get the point across. I have seen on many social …

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    Journaling

    by loftnc@gmail.com July 9, 2015
    by loftnc@gmail.com July 9, 2015

    These questions are looking for opinions from the perspective of both the Dominant who requires the journaling by his submissive and the submissive who does the journaling. 1. What is …

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    Acid Tests for True Dominants

    by loftnc@gmail.com July 9, 2015
    by loftnc@gmail.com July 9, 2015

    Introduction The term ‘Acid Test’ is an old prospecting term. A powerful acid can dissolve most base metals in a matter of minutes. However, gold will stand up to most …

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    Some Facts about Consent

    by loftnc@gmail.com June 9, 2015
    by loftnc@gmail.com June 9, 2015

    During the last several months, my local community and the scene at large has had a number of issues regarding consent violation, assault, and generally predatory behavior. In the wake …

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