Contributed Writings

1) First and foremost, she is a business women! She is providing a service, usually to make a living, just like any other store or service provider. Some of them …

There’s an old saying that “Good judgment comes from experience. Unfortunately, experience comes from bad judgment.” I teach this class for two reasons. One, to – hopefully – keep you …

Oh I cut myself – can I get a bondage please? ‘Mum, I’m going to a macramé workshop for the weekend’ …yeah, that should work. I’m really starting to get …

Their two favorite words are “no” and “now.” They must always get their way. ALWAYS. They DO NOT like being spanked. They beat the crap out of their toys. They …

This article was linked on Fetlife and I thought the information and thoughts the author invoked were invaluable for anyone considering or engaging in poly dynamics.  Article/journal entry shared here …

Mentoring…(rules???) Rule #1 – If they want to have sex with you, THEY ARE NOT A MENTOR. Rule #1a – If you want to have sex with them, YOU AREN’T LOOKING FOR …

*It should be noted that there is no “One True Way”. No matter what side of the slash you are on, you have to define your needs, your wants, and …

This post may seem abrupt, but I feel that certain things need to be said in an abrupt manner to get the point across. I have seen on many social …

These questions are looking for opinions from the perspective of both the Dominant who requires the journaling by his submissive and the submissive who does the journaling. 1. What is …

Introduction The term ‘Acid Test’ is an old prospecting term. A powerful acid can dissolve most base metals in a matter of minutes. However, gold will stand up to most …