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    Some Facts about Consent

    by Lady Leigh June 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh June 9, 2015

    During the last several months, my local community and the scene at large has had a number of issues regarding consent violation, assault, and generally predatory behavior. In the wake …

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    The Tale of My Daughters’ Penises

    by Lady Leigh June 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh June 9, 2015

    We’ve been getting a lot of packages, recently. Friends have been sending cookies, cards, groceries, shoes, books, and (of course!) toys for the kids. Their favorite package so far contained …

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    Caring for a brat. (Innermind’s continued guide to training a brat).

    by Lady Leigh May 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh May 9, 2015

    You’re the proud owner of a brat! Hurray! But before you celebrate and douse her with champagne in a frantic celebration and take her home to make her yours, forever …

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    The Marks We Leave Behind

    by Lady Leigh April 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh April 9, 2015

    Bruises, welts, marks and tears are just a few things I can induce from a good scene. These are physical tokens that I can leave to mark the moment and …

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    Owned (“You are mine”)

    by Lady Leigh April 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh April 9, 2015

    He saw her across the room And scanned her slowly From head to toe She was not what an ordinary man Would call classically beautiful But then He was no …

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    Vulnerability & Responsibility

    by Lady Leigh April 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh April 9, 2015

    When someone makes themselves vulnerable to you, physically, mentally and emotionally, then that creates a responsibility for you to ensure that you protect their well being to the best of …

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    Are you a wannabee?

    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015

    You Might Be A Wannabe (Doms) If you ever use the phrase “A real sub wouldn’t have a problem doing that”… you might be a Wannabe If you think the …

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    Flogging 101

    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015

    “How to Flog” gets asked a lot on FetLife. Instead of writing a new answer each time, I figured I’d write this and just post the link from now on. …

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    BDSM and Trust

    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015

    BDSM is a practice of handing over the care of your body to another, or someone else is giving control of their body to you. One of the things that …

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    You, Sir, are a Top, NOT a Dom!

    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015

    If, when asked about your skills as a Dominant, you can only cite your mad flogging skills, your badass caning, or your unparalleled whipping skills, YOU ARE A TOP! You …

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