During the last several months, my local community and the scene at large has had a number of issues regarding consent violation, assault, and generally predatory behavior. In the wake …
We’ve been getting a lot of packages, recently. Friends have been sending cookies, cards, groceries, shoes, books, and (of course!) toys for the kids. Their favorite package so far contained …
You’re the proud owner of a brat! Hurray! But before you celebrate and douse her with champagne in a frantic celebration and take her home to make her yours, forever …
Bruises, welts, marks and tears are just a few things I can induce from a good scene. These are physical tokens that I can leave to mark the moment and …
He saw her across the room And scanned her slowly From head to toe She was not what an ordinary man Would call classically beautiful But then He was no …
When someone makes themselves vulnerable to you, physically, mentally and emotionally, then that creates a responsibility for you to ensure that you protect their well being to the best of …
You Might Be A Wannabe (Doms) If you ever use the phrase “A real sub wouldn’t have a problem doing that”… you might be a Wannabe If you think the …
“How to Flog” gets asked a lot on FetLife. Instead of writing a new answer each time, I figured I’d write this and just post the link from now on. …
BDSM is a practice of handing over the care of your body to another, or someone else is giving control of their body to you. One of the things that …
If, when asked about your skills as a Dominant, you can only cite your mad flogging skills, your badass caning, or your unparalleled whipping skills, YOU ARE A TOP! You …