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    Why women leave men they love – What every man needs to know

    by Lady Leigh January 30, 2015
    by Lady Leigh January 30, 2015

    As a marriage counsellor working with men and women in relationship crisis, I help clients navigate numerous marriage counselling issues. While many situations are complex, there’s one profoundly simple truth …

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    Eight Ways to Spot Emotional Manipulation

    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2015

    There is no use in trying to be honest with an emotional manipulator. You make a statement and it will be turned around. Example: I am really angry that you …

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    What I’m Saying

    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2015

    When I say “I want to be tied up” what I’m really saying is “I want to trust you enough to let go.” When I say “I want to be …

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    The Art of Kneeling

    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2014

    Kneeling has various social and religious connotations going back centuries, Christians, Hindus and Muslims alike all use one form or another of kneeling, as a sign of reverence, respect and …

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    The Cave

    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2014

    “Wow, that’s a neat cave for you’ve built out of torn pillows seeping feathers, ragged blankets and splintered furniture. May I join you?” you said, peeking in through the front …

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    SAFETY IN THE LIFESTYLE

    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2014

    For all new Doms/Dommes and subs alike, here are a few standard rules to make your transition into online D/s a safer, happier one. 1. You do not have to …

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    The Good Stuff – Pro Domme

    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2014

    In light of the tension in the group recently, I thought I would start a thread about the positive things Pro-Domination has provided in your life. I’ll start: I’ve met …

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    Scars

    by Lady Leigh June 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh June 9, 2014

    Good people carry scars on their hearts. Sometimes they are self-inflicted. Sometimes fear and distrust lead to mental cutting, and the wounded heart grows darker and even less vulnerable. But …

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    The Myths of BDSM

    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2014

    1. You have unresolved issues from childhood. You were abused, molested, beaten up, bullied, neglected, etc. Your parents didn’t love you and you feel undeserving of love. Because of your …

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    10 Key Qualities for an Exceptional Dom

    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2014

    10 Key Qualities for an Exceptional Dom Posted by Master Arcane February-6-2009 An excellent Dom buddy of mine wrote me to ask what I thought were the 10 Essential Qualities …

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