Contributed Writings

There is no use in trying to be honest with an emotional manipulator. You make a statement and it will be turned around. Example: I am really angry that you …

When I say “I want to be tied up” what I’m really saying is “I want to trust you enough to let go.” When I say “I want to be …

Kneeling has various social and religious connotations going back centuries, Christians, Hindus and Muslims alike all use one form or another of kneeling, as a sign of reverence, respect and …

“Wow, that’s a neat cave for you’ve built out of torn pillows seeping feathers, ragged blankets and splintered furniture. May I join you?” you said, peeking in through the front …

For all new Doms/Dommes and subs alike, here are a few standard rules to make your transition into online D/s a safer, happier one. 1. You do not have to …

In light of the tension in the group recently, I thought I would start a thread about the positive things Pro-Domination has provided in your life. I’ll start: I’ve met …

Good people carry scars on their hearts. Sometimes they are self-inflicted. Sometimes fear and distrust lead to mental cutting, and the wounded heart grows darker and even less vulnerable. But …

1. You have unresolved issues from childhood. You were abused, molested, beaten up, bullied, neglected, etc. Your parents didn’t love you and you feel undeserving of love. Because of your …

10 Key Qualities for an Exceptional Dom Posted by Master Arcane February-6-2009 An excellent Dom buddy of mine wrote me to ask what I thought were the 10 Essential Qualities …

Enjoy reading!! Although everyone into the BDSM scene has heard of endorphins, actually very, very few people really understand what they are, how they work, what the “high” is all …