Contributed Writings

1. Dominating isn’t as easy as it looks. There’s much more to it than just sternly giving out orders. You should really be capable of doing the things you command …

Disclaimer: This is long and winding and somewhat disjointed. It is also going to upset some people. Consent is a difficult topic to discuss due to the stigma surrounding consent …

Protocols aren’t for everyone.. Some people find them to be tedious, while others see them as the very essence of D/s. For those of us that do enjoy protocols, they …

This is the first formal training exercise I do with new submisives. Its part of my protocol training. It’s also an effective and fun way to transition from vanilla or “just …

“Isn’t that what I’m supposed to do?” “I just thought that was what I was supposed to do.” “I just thought that’s what was expected of me. Isn’t it?” I’ve …

One night after a long play session we were sitting on the couch talking. She stretched her legs across my lap and I began rubbing her feet. She smiled, sighed, …

Recommended Reading Please keep in mind that all of these books and articles were written by fallible human beings, each with their own background and biases. Do not take any …

I love to have sensual, passionate make out sessions with a really cute sub who really knows how to kiss, submissively… I will bring my lips close to hers, but …

This is an article I wrote for “Power Lines” back in 1998, it’s somewhat dated now but I’m still surprised how many requests I get to repost it. Since I …

1. Most women that post pics of their feet aren’t interested in meeting you or fulfilling your fantasies On Fetlife if your not able to see a woman above her …