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Lady Leigh is the owner of The LoftNC and a regionally respected educator and leader in the BDSM/kink community, with decades of experience in safe practice, consent education, and community building in the greater Charlotte area.

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    Practicing Polyamory

    by Lady Leigh September 22, 2014
    by Lady Leigh September 22, 2014

    Like it? Have it bookmarked? Saved a copy? Share it Original Blog Post   PonyGroom: “Can I ask you a question about being in an ‘open’ marriage?” After the millionth time …

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    Etiquette & Courtesy during scene time

    by Lady Leigh September 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh September 9, 2014

    Do not distract or disturb the players. This goes for when you see people preparing for a scene (Tops and bottoms both need time to prepare and get their head …

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    SAFETY IN THE LIFESTYLE

    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2014

    For all new Doms/Dommes and subs alike, here are a few standard rules to make your transition into online D/s a safer, happier one. 1. You do not have to …

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    The Good Stuff – Pro Domme

    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh August 9, 2014

    In light of the tension in the group recently, I thought I would start a thread about the positive things Pro-Domination has provided in your life. I’ll start: I’ve met …

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    A Guide for Rope Bottoms & Bondage Models

    by Lady Leigh July 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh July 9, 2014

    Great article for anyone interested in being a bondage or rope bottom Lady LeighLady Leigh is the owner of The LoftNC and a regionally respected educator and leader in the …

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    Scars

    by Lady Leigh June 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh June 9, 2014

    Good people carry scars on their hearts. Sometimes they are self-inflicted. Sometimes fear and distrust lead to mental cutting, and the wounded heart grows darker and even less vulnerable. But …

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    New Password Required

    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2014

    Technology: NEW PASSWORD REQUIRED User:   My usual password is not working suddenly, why? Website chat assistant:   Your password has expired – you must register a new one. User:   Why do …

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    The Myths of BDSM

    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2014

    1. You have unresolved issues from childhood. You were abused, molested, beaten up, bullied, neglected, etc. Your parents didn’t love you and you feel undeserving of love. Because of your …

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    10 Key Qualities for an Exceptional Dom

    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2014

    10 Key Qualities for an Exceptional Dom Posted by Master Arcane February-6-2009 An excellent Dom buddy of mine wrote me to ask what I thought were the 10 Essential Qualities …

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    The endorphin levels in BDSM- A short primer on sending a submissive into hyperspace!!

    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2014

    Enjoy reading!! Although everyone into the BDSM scene has heard of endorphins, actually very, very few people really understand what they are, how they work, what the “high” is all …

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