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Lady Leigh

Lady Leigh is the owner of The LoftNC and a regionally respected educator and leader in the BDSM/kink community, with decades of experience in safe practice, consent education, and community building in the greater Charlotte area.

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    BDSM and Trust

    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015

    BDSM is a practice of handing over the care of your body to another, or someone else is giving control of their body to you. One of the things that …

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    You, Sir, are a Top, NOT a Dom!

    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh March 9, 2015

    If, when asked about your skills as a Dominant, you can only cite your mad flogging skills, your badass caning, or your unparalleled whipping skills, YOU ARE A TOP! You …

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    Why women leave men they love – What every man needs to know

    by Lady Leigh January 30, 2015
    by Lady Leigh January 30, 2015

    As a marriage counsellor working with men and women in relationship crisis, I help clients navigate numerous marriage counselling issues. While many situations are complex, there’s one profoundly simple truth …

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    Eight Ways to Spot Emotional Manipulation

    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2015

    There is no use in trying to be honest with an emotional manipulator. You make a statement and it will be turned around. Example: I am really angry that you …

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    What I’m Saying

    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2015
    by Lady Leigh January 9, 2015

    When I say “I want to be tied up” what I’m really saying is “I want to trust you enough to let go.” When I say “I want to be …

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    The Art of Kneeling

    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2014

    Kneeling has various social and religious connotations going back centuries, Christians, Hindus and Muslims alike all use one form or another of kneeling, as a sign of reverence, respect and …

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    6 Totally Normal Things Young Girls Do When They’re Discovering Their Sexuality That No One Ever Talks About

    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2014

    DISCLAIMER!!!: I didn’t write this!! I just like to share things that are informative/funny/relate able for me 🙂 Here is the link to the original writing. You should go read …

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    The Cave

    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh November 9, 2014

    “Wow, that’s a neat cave for you’ve built out of torn pillows seeping feathers, ragged blankets and splintered furniture. May I join you?” you said, peeking in through the front …

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    Basic Etiquette

    by Lady Leigh October 9, 2014
    by Lady Leigh October 9, 2014

    Basic etiquette and manners matter in daily life and in lifestyle as well! Treat other people as you’d like to be treated. Golden rule usually works really well, however, when …

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    10 Things a Dominant Needs From A Submissive

    by Lady Leigh September 24, 2014
    by Lady Leigh September 24, 2014

    This is a post I found and wanted to share.1. Know your Responsibilities. Dominants have responsibilities. We hear a LOT about that in our community. We have the responsibility to …

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