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1. The most important person in your life is the person(s) who agreed to share their life with you. Treat them as such. 2. You might live a long life, …

by -sugarbritches Being transgender is complicated but has opened my eyes to a phenomenon I had not realized even existed; that is male privilege. Don’t get me wrong, I knew of …

I’ve never been drawn to the ‘Knight in Shining Armour’ or the ‘Prince Charming’. I’m much happier in the company of Dragons, or one Dragon in particular, I should say. …

1. That life isn’t binary. Sometimes she will have other things she needs to put first. Sometimes I have other things I need to put first. It may be health, …

by Howwwlnwulf So you have embraced your inner caveman and cavewoman and want to play with fire. What is it that excites you about this kind of play? Fire affects all …

Polyamory: Best Books & Resources You have the right, without shame, blame or guilt: In all intimate relationships: -to be free from coercion, violence and intimidation -to choose the level …

WRITTEN BY RIVERDALE GODDESS. . . I spent last night counseling a submissive who is thinking about leaving her collar. She expressed such complete devotion to her Dominant but doubt …

At the LoftNC, we teach and talk a lot about consent.  We strongly express that consent is a YES – only positive consent is consent.  No is NO and Maybe …

• Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #1 – ‘Communication’ • Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #2 – ‘Triggers’ • Epilepsy and BDSM – A dangerous combination? #3 – ‘Actions …

She. Stands very still. Watching him flit about from place to place. Absentmindedly playing with the keys. Her finger rubs the cool metal and trace every detail of the ridged …