Recommended Reading Please keep in mind that all of these books and articles were written by fallible human beings, each with their own background and biases. Do not take any …
This is an article I wrote for “Power Lines” back in 1998, it’s somewhat dated now but I’m still surprised how many requests I get to repost it. Since I …
Okay, I’ll go ahead and admit that I stacked the deck in part I of this post. I deliberately put most of the myths I figured a lot of people …
In my not-so-humble opinion, there are a lot of myths about consent and negotiation that float around our subculture. There are so many, in fact, that once I started writing …
This article was linked on Fetlife and I thought the information and thoughts the author invoked were invaluable for anyone considering or engaging in poly dynamics. Article/journal entry shared here …
Introduction The term ‘Acid Test’ is an old prospecting term. A powerful acid can dissolve most base metals in a matter of minutes. However, gold will stand up to most …
This is a post I found and wanted to share.1. Know your Responsibilities. Dominants have responsibilities. We hear a LOT about that in our community. We have the responsibility to …
Like it? Have it bookmarked? Saved a copy? Share it Original Blog Post PonyGroom: “Can I ask you a question about being in an ‘open’ marriage?” After the millionth time …
Do not distract or disturb the players. This goes for when you see people preparing for a scene (Tops and bottoms both need time to prepare and get their head …
Great article for anyone interested in being a bondage or rope bottom Lady LeighLady Leigh is the owner of The LoftNC and a regionally respected educator and leader in the …