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Important Event Info

by Lady Leigh

COVID / FLU / RSV

If you are feeling any of the symptoms of COVID/FLU/RSV or if you have been in close contact with someone diagnosed with COVID FLU/RSV PLEASE STAY HOME. If you think you’ve been around someone who has been in contact…STAY HOME.

NOT A SWING CLUB

DO NOT COME IF: you are seeking sex, you want to have sex, you want to watch sex or you want to masturbate. In other words, if you want to watch sex or have sex you are coming to the wrong place. We are not for you. Try SwingTowns.com/like/TheLoftNC.

Yes we are “sex positive” meaning if you negotiate sex as part of your scene, then you may do so. We do not provide condoms or lube and request you clean up after yourselves. Yes you will be watched, we are voyeurs after all.

When

Dates and times vary by event. Please check the individual event listing you plan to attend for schedule details.

Tickets or Online Purchase

You may purchase your event tickets and $30 membership via one of these methods. Add a note to designate event date:

  • Guest Ticket MUST be accompanied by a member.
  • Venmo @LoftNC
  • Cash app $Ladyleighloftnc
  • PayPal loftnc@gmail.com
  • Zelle 704-964-1923

What to Bring

Please bring a dish or snack to share. Donations of water, soda, k-cups, paper products, cleaning supplies are always welcome.

Membership

The LoftNC is a private members only BDSM club and was founded to provide a safe and secure environment for our members and guests. Please note we are a BDSM club NOT a Swing Club. The location of our club home is provided only to our members and attendees and is not available on any maps or search engines. Help protect the group’s privacy…please do NOT provide the club location to anyone. Please direct interested parties to our website at loftnc.com. All ticket sales, membership dues and donations help defray the costs of keeping the LoftNC.

Paying your membership is a requirement as we are a private club with membership rules that allow us to have the type of activities we enjoy. Membership for the year is $30 and renews on your anniversary date. In order to expedite check-in at the event, we request that memberships be purchased in advance. You can add or renew your membership along with your event ticket purchase or buy separately here: Membership.

Vetting

Because we are an educational venue we do our own vetting as we firmly believe that no one should be denied the ability to learn and grow. The LoftNC is a SAFE SPACE free from judgment and drama and we work very hard to maintain it as such.

Discord

To join the Discord you must have (a) completed your waivers, and (b) paid your annual dues:

Join the LoftNC Discord here.

Alcohol & Prohibited Items

BYOB/W (beer or wine only). Please drink responsibly. Please note if hard alcohol is brought to the LoftNC you will be asked to leave. No drugs, not 420 friendly, no hard alcohol, and no guns of any kind including tasers are permitted on LoftNC property at any time. Bringing such items will result in your being asked to leave and your membership revoked.

Questions?

If you have any questions, please email LoftNC@gmail.com.

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  • The Social Club
    • Photo Gallery
    • Dungeon Rules
    • Membership Information
    • Loft Rental
    • How You Can Help
    • Testimonials / Reviews
    • Kink Library
  • The Studio
  • News / Blog
  • Regular Events
    • Newbie Night
    • Rope Bite
    • Poly & ENM
    • “Impact Church”
    • DsRT
  • Calendar
  • Discord
  • FAQ
  • Contact Us