Pitfalls Of Premade Polyamory
PITFALLS OF PREMADE POLYAMORY
Polyamory can be one of the most fulfilling and freeing types of relationship structures someone can pursue and it can also be one of the most difficult and painful relationships someone can pursue. Why such disparity? What makes the difference between fulfillment and frustration? In this class we’re going to go over the difference makers between a free and fulfilling relationship, a steady but resentful relationship, and a fury inducing nightmare of a relationship. I’m going to share a lot of mistakes I’ve made so you won’t have to and share the tips we’ve learned to correct those common mistakes. If you’re new to polyamory and ENM, or if you feel stuck in a loop of push and pull and resentment in those relationships come out and learn how some practical mindsets and skills to move forward in a healthy way.
D is a polyamorous, whip loving sadist residing in the Charlotte, NC area. In his nearly years in the BDSM community, D has found his sweet spot in sadism, with a passion for whips, canes, and most forms of edge play. D has a passion for helping people explore both polyamory and kink. He considers himself more of a student of life than an expert, and loves to present and share his knowledge and experience with others.
###COVID:
If you are feeling any of the symptoms of COVID or if you have been in close contact with someone diagnosed with COVID PLEASE STAY HOME. If you think you’ve been around someone who has been in contact…STAY HOME.
NOT A SWING CLUB – DO NOT COME IF:
- you are seeking sex
- you want to have sex
- you want to watch sex
- you want to masturbate
- in other words if you want to watch sex or have sex you are coming to the wrong place. We are not for you. Try SwingTowns.com/like/TheLoftNC.
When:
Doors open at 1 pm, demo starts at 2 pm, open play follows until 8 pm.
Cost:
You may pay at the door or purchase your $20 tickets and $20 membership via one of these methods – add note to designate event date:
Venmo @Kelly-Hofmann
Cash app $Ladyleighloftnc
PayPal loftnc@gmail.com
Zelle 704-964-1923
What to Bring:
Please bring a dish or snack to share. Donations of soda, k-cups, paper products are always welcome.
Membership:
The LoftNC is as private members only BDSM club and was founded to provide a safe and secure environment for our members and guests. Please note we are a BDSM club NOT a Swing Club. The location of our club home is provided only to our members and attendees and is not available on any maps or search engines. Help protect the groups’ privacy…please do NOT provide the club location to anyone. Please direct interested parties to our website at http://www.loftnc.com. All ticket sales, membership dues and donations help defray the costs of keeping the LoftNC.
Paying your membership is a requirement as we are a private club with membership rules that allow us to have the type of activities we enjoy. Membership for the year is $20 and renews on your anniversary date. In order to expedite check-in at the event, we request that memberships be purchased in advance. Membership: you can add or renew your membership along with your event tickets purchase or buy separately here – Membership.
Vetting
Because we are an educational venue we do our own vetting as we firmly believe that no one should be denied the ability to learn and grow. The LoftNC is a SAFE SPACE free from judgment and drama and we work very hard to maintain it as such.
Waivers:
If you have already completed your waivers you do NOT need to do them again. Information email including address provided with completed and accepted Waivers.
Links for Waivers to be completed prior to arrival at the LoftNC are:
1 -Covid Waiver: https://waiver.fr/p-Ou8GL
2 -Event Waiver: https://waiver.fr/p-GjJ3o
Discord:
You may join our discord @LoftNC Discord. Keep in mind you will remain in newbie status until membership is paid, waivers are completed, and you have attended an event as well as participated in discussions. Discord is for chat between members, making friends and staying linked in with happenings at the LoftNC. There is a strict NO DRAMA or JUDGEMENT rule on our Discord.
Alcohol:
BYOB/W (beer or wine only) – please drink responsibly. Please note if hard alcohol is brought to the LoftNC you will be asked to leave.
Prohibited Items
No drugs, not 420 friendly, no hard alcohol, and no guns of any kind including tasers are permitted on LoftNC property at any time. Bringing such items will result in your being asked to leave and your membership revoked.
If you have any questions, please email LoftNC@gmail.com
