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How to Communicate & Negotiate for a Fulfilling Scene

How often do you find that someone can actually read your mind and tell what you need or want and when you need or want it? Me either!

That is why open and honest communication is so vitally important in relationships and especially in a D/s dynamic.

This discussion will encompass how to open up, how to tell your Dominant or submissive what you need and want. How to have those difficult discussions that delve deep into your kinky side. Without good communication you won’t get the scene or play you crave.

Presented by Lady_Leigh & Nine_Point_Five.

Note: $20 door fee / $30 membership required (tiered pricing — not fully captured by the single price field).

Date
Oct 11 2026
Time
1:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Cost
$20.00
More Info
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Location
The Loft NC
Gastonia, NC
Website https://loftnc.com
Category
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Required Waivers

Complete once before your first visit. Waivers submitted after 12 pm on event day are not guaranteed entry.

Speakers

  • Lady_Leigh

    Lady Leigh began her lifestyle journey as a submissive with her husband of 45 years and became a Mistress in 2010. During their journey they were fortunate to meet others who taught them how to play safely. As a way to give back, she is dedicated to the presentation of education for the community & firmly believes in “each one teach one.” She is the owner of the LoftNC, a Studio and Social Club in Gastonia, NC which gives the community a place to come play and to receive education and support in a healthy and safe manner. She is also the co-owner of Soaring Eagle Creations (@SoaringEagleNC) with her partner, Nine_Point_Five and together they produce wonderful leather toys for your kinky pleasure. Lady Leigh believes in education and travels to share her knowledge because “education is just that important.” Presenter at many events and groups throughout the Carolinas and East Coast including the LoftNC regularly throughout the years.

  • Nine_Point_Five
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