Hey, would you like to play? How to do pick up play by Lady_Leigh
So you walk into the event and chose a green wristband (means you’re open to play). Now what? Someone asks you to play, so what are your next steps? Do you want to play? Come join us to learn how to negotiate, plan a scene and have successful pick-up-play all the way through aftercare.
PRESENTER:
**Lady Leigh began her lifestyle journey as a submissive with her husband of 43 years. During their journey they were fortunate to meet others who taught them how to play safely. As a way to give back, she is dedicated to the presentation of education for the community & firmly believes in “each one teach one.” She travels to teach because it’s just that important.
She is the owner of the LoftNC, a Studio and Social Club (http://www.loftnc.com) in Gastonia (just outside of Charlotte) which gives the community a place to come play and to receive education and support in a healthy and safe manner.
She is also the co-owner of http://www.SoaringEagleCreations.com with her partner, MSquared- and together they produce wonderful leather toys for your kinky pleasure.
COVID/FLU/RSV
If you are feeling any of the symptoms of COVID/FLU or RSV or if you have been in close contact with someone diagnosed with COVID PLEASE STAY HOME. If you think you’ve been around someone who has been in contact…STAY HOME.
DO NOT COME IF:
- you are seeking sex
- you want to have sex
- you want to watch sex
- you want to masturbate
- in other words if you want to watch sex or have sex you are coming to the wrong place. We are not for you. Try SwingTowns.com/like/TheLoftNC.
When:
Doors open at 1 pm, Demo begins at 2 followed by open play until 8 pm.
Tickets or Online Purchase:
PREPAY YOUR TICKETS TO GUARANTEE ENTRY. Clicking “Going” does Not guarantee you a spot.
You may purchase your $20 tickets and $30 membership via one of these methods – add note to designate event date:
Guest Ticket MUST be accompanied by a member.
Event Ticket
Venmo @Kelly-Hofmann or @LoftNC
Cash app $Ladyleighloftnc
PayPal loftnc@gmail.com
Zelle 704-964-1923
What to Bring:
Please bring a dish or snack to share – proteins, fruit, vegetables to dip, all are welcome. Donations of soda, k-cups, paper products are always welcome.
Membership:
The LoftNC is as private members only BDSM club and was founded to provide a safe and secure environment for our members and guests. Please note we are a BDSM club NOT a Swing Club. The location of our club home is provided only to our members and attendees and is not available on any maps or search engines. Help protect the groups’ privacy…please do NOT provide the club location to anyone. Please direct interested parties to our website at http://www.loftnc.com. All ticket sales, membership dues and donations help defray the costs of keeping the LoftNC operating and are not income for the Owner, Lady Leigh.
Paying your membership is a requirement as we are a private club with membership rules that allow us to have the type of activities we enjoy. Membership for the year is $30 and renews on your anniversary date (YES we raised our dues by $10 starting in 2025 to help defray rise in costs of maintaining the LoftNC). In order to expedite check-in at the event, we request that memberships be purchased in advance. Membership: you can add or renew your membership along with your event tickets purchase or buy separately here – https://squareup.com/market/loftncsocialclub/membership-dues.
Vetting
Because we are an educational venue we do our own vetting as we firmly believe that no one should be denied the ability to learn and grow. The LoftNC is a SAFE SPACE free from judgment and drama and we work very hard to maintain it as such. So complete your Waivers (see below) and come join us so we can get to know you.
Waivers:
If you have already completed your waivers you do NOT need to do them again. Information email including address provided with completed and accepted Waivers – you will receive an email from WaiverForever that says “Thank You for Signing”. If you don’t see this please check your spam/junk folder.
Links for Waivers to be completed prior to arrival at the LoftNC are:
1 -Covid Waiver: https://waiver.fr/p-Ou8GL
2 -Event Waiver: https://waiver.fr/p-GjJ3o
Discord:
Join our Discord @ https://discord.gg/WyH3YPD8.
Keep in mind you will remain in newbie status until membership is paid, waivers are completed, and you have attended an event as well as participated in discussions. Discord is for chat between members, making friends and staying linked in with happenings at the LoftNC. There is a strict NO DRAMA or JUDGEMENT rule on our Discord.
Alcohol:
BYOB/W (beer or wine only) – please drink responsibly. Please note if hard alcohol is brought to the LoftNC you will be asked to leave.
Prohibited Items
No drugs, not 420 friendly, no hard alcohol, and no guns of any kind including tasers are permitted on LoftNC property at any time. Bringing such items will result in your being asked to leave and your membership revoked. NOTE – THESE RULES ALSO APPLY TO YOU GOING BACK AND FORTH TO YOUR CAR TO DRINK OR SMOKE.
If you have any questions, please email LoftNC@gmail.com