Erotic Whips by _D_

A whip is often considered one of the scariest implements around but it doesn’t always have to be. In this class we take the fear out of a bullwhip and instead go into how to use it for erotic play. Taking the basic throws of the whip and translating them into sensual play. We’ll go over how to do simple wraps and pull them off if the body, how to use the puff of a whip stimulate sensitive areas, and how to control a whip strike to make it feel like a gentle brush. This class is all about making the meanest of toys become the nicest at least for a little bit.

D is a polyamorous, leather-identified sadist residing in the Charlotte, NC area. In his five-plus years in the BDSM community, D has found his sweet spot in Master/slave, authority-transfer dynamics, with a passion for whips, canes, and most forms of edge play. He considers himself more of a student of life than an expert, and loves to present and share his knowledge and experience with others. He has presented both in-person and virtually at local and regional venues such as Frolicon, Capex, the Kink Academy, The LoftNC and TNG. D believes in contributing to the education, enrichment, and safety of his community and has served on local boards and leadership teams in the Charlotte area.
In his spare time, D enjoys consensually executing his sadistic ideas on his slave, his pet, and a few lucky close friends. You’ll often find him organizing his 20-plus whip collection, battling his way through his retro video game collection, or watching documentaries on collectible watches, coffee, or luxury shaving gear.

What to Bring:

Please bring a dish or snack to share. Donations of soda, k-cups, paper products, and cleaning supplies are always welcome.

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The LoftNC is as private members only BDSM club and was founded to provide a safe and secure environment for our members and guests. Please note we are a BDSM club NOT a Swing Club. The location of our club home is provided only to our members and attendees and is not available on any maps or search engines. Help protect the groups’ privacy…please do NOT provide the club location to anyone. Please direct interested parties to our website at All ticket sales, membership dues and donations help defray the costs of keeping the LoftNC operating and are not income for the Owner, Lady Leigh.

Paying your membership is a requirement as we are a private club with membership rules that allow us to have the type of activities we enjoy. Membership for the year is $20 and renews on your anniversary date. In order to expedite check-in at the event, we request that memberships be purchased in advance. Purchase or renew your membership online here.


Because we are an educational venue we do our own vetting as we firmly believe that no one should be denied the ability to learn and grow. The LoftNC is a SAFE SPACE and we work very hard to maintain it as such.


If you have already completed your waivers you do NOT need to do them again.
Links for Waivers to be completed prior to arrival at the LoftNC are:

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BYOB/W (beer or wine only) – please drink responsibly. Please note if hard alcohol is brought to the LoftNC you will be asked to leave.


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Jun 11 2023


1:00 pm - 8:00 pm
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