Erotic Whips by _D_

Erotic Whips

A whip is often considered one of the scariest implements around but it doesn’t always have to be. In this class we take the fear out of a bullwhip and instead go into how to use it for erotic play. Taking the basic throws of the whip and translating them into sensual play. We’ll go over how to do simple wraps and pull them off if the body, how to use the puff of a whip stimulate sensitive areas, and how to control a whip strike to make it feel like a gentle brush. This class is all about making the meanest of toys become the nicest at least for a little bit.


D is a polyamorous, whip loving sadist residing in the Charlotte, NC area. In his nearly years in the BDSM community, D has found his sweet spot in sadism, with a passion for whips, canes, and most forms of edge play. He considers himself more of a student of life than an expert, and loves to present and share his knowledge and experience with others. He has presented both in-person and virtually at local and regional venues such as Frolicon, Capex, the Kink Academy, The LoftNC, and TNG. D believes in contributing to the education, enrichment, and safety of his community and has served on local boards and leadership teams in the Charlotte area.


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  • you are seeking sex
  • you want to have sex
  • you want to watch sex
  • you want to masturbate
  • in other words if you want to watch sex or have sex you are coming to the wrong place. We are not for you. Try a swing club instead.


Doors open at 1 pm, Demo begins at 2 followed by open play until 8 pm.

Tickets or Online Purchase:

You may purchase your $20 tickets and $20 membership via one of these methods – add note to designate event date:

Door when you arrive via credit card or cash
Venmo @Kelly-Hofmann
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What to Bring:

Please bring a dish or snack to share – proteins, fruit, vegetables to dip, all are welcome. Donations of soda, k-cups, paper products are always welcome.


The LoftNC is as private members only BDSM club and was founded to provide a safe and secure environment for our members and guests. Please note we are a BDSM club NOT a Swing Club. The location of our club home is provided only to our members and attendees and is not available on any maps or search engines. Help protect the groups’ privacy…please do NOT provide the club location to anyone. Please direct interested parties to our website at All ticket sales, membership dues and donations help defray the costs of keeping the LoftNC operating and are not income for the Owner, Lady Leigh.

Paying your membership is a requirement as we are a private club with membership rules that allow us to have the type of activities we enjoy. Membership for the year is $20 and renews on your anniversary date. In order to expedite check-in at the event, we request that memberships be purchased in advance. Membership: you can add or renew your membership along with your event tickets purchase or buy separately here –


Because we are an educational venue we do our own vetting as we firmly believe that no one should be denied the ability to learn and grow. The LoftNC is a SAFE SPACE free from judgment and drama and we work very hard to maintain it as such. So complete your Waivers (see below) and come join us so we can get to know you.


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BYOB/W (beer or wine only) – please drink responsibly. Please note if hard alcohol is brought to the LoftNC you will be asked to leave.

Prohibited Items

No drugs, not 420 friendly, no hard alcohol, and no guns of any kind including tasers are permitted on LoftNC property at any time. Bringing such items will result in your being asked to leave and your membership revoked. NOTE – THESE RULES ALSO APPLY TO YOU GOING BACK AND FORTH TO YOUR CAR TO DRINK OR SMOKE.

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Feb 25 2024


1:00 pm - 8:00 pm

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The Loft
Gastonia, NC
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