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The Social Club...

the Place To Be Just Who You Are!



We are an education based Social Group and Dungeon located in Gastonia, NC.  We offer a kink friendly environment in which to relax and play, have noisy scene time, or a place to get away with freedoms for kink not always available in a hotel.


Our Sunday afternoon demos/presentations and open dungeon are at our Gastonia location once again while we look for another Charlotte area location.  If you know of a space for rent that meets our criteria please contact us with the information.

Our Gastonia location is located on almost two acres, in a well insulated “Loft” above a garage play space, leather shop for and private office. The Loft is approximately 1000 square feet with a full kitchen (with all essentials) and bath, equipped with a massage table, St Andrews crosses, spanking benches, queen size 4 poster bed with 2 cages underneath and multiple attachment points, medical table, suspension beam, Bowflex, seating areas, stereos, and WiFi. There is also a large back deck with chairs for relaxing and a hammock chair stand for suspension as well.

The LoftNC holds open play socials and specialty parties on Friday and Saturday evenings and educational demos/presentations and events on Sunday afternoons. Please see our Calendar of Events for further information. Presentations and demos are open to everyone and are NOT vetted events.

Initial RSVP for your first visit to the LoftNC requires an email to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. to receive the unlisted private address. This is for the privacy of our members.  After you have been to the LoftNC the first time, subsequent visits only need to be RSVP'd online as "going" or "maybe" so we have a head count.

The LoftNC is a non-smoking facility, however, smoking is permitted on the patio.  We ask everyone to honor our smoking policy.   Violations of our smoking policy will result in a $250 cleaning assessment. 


  • Vanilla attire to the door, you may change once inside
  • Toys in discrete bags please
  • You must have attended a class or prior event or be vetted by a member to attend a members only social (classes are open to everyone to attend)


Membership dues are $20 and renew annually on anniversary date.  Read more on membership informationYou can now pay your membership dues online Square Marketplace - LoftNC Dues.


Rental Availability

The LoftNC Gastonia is available for rent for periods from one hour, several hours or for overnight.  Rates vary by time requested (i.e. before 6 pm or after) and length of stay. Rate are $50 for hourly rental and $200 for overnight.  Rates for small parties or private groups, please contact Lady Leigh at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. to discuss the needs of your group.

*Our Growth & Need for Support*

The LoftNC is continually growing to meet the needs of the community.  Your continued support of the LoftNC will make this possible.  To make this happen we are looking for investors and donations.  If you are interested in helping or know of funding or financial opportunities, please email Lady Leigh at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..  We are also accepting donations online Square Marketplace - Donations, Help Us Grow!




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