Advocacy (required class for DMs)

Struggling to speak up for yourself?

Come join Tigerlily (@NopeIDontLikeYou) and KitFoxingAround for a class that teaches self-advocacy and practical skills to speak up with confidence and intention. Our goal is to help participants create a foundation to find their own authentic way of advocating for themselves and others, uphold healthy boundaries, and navigate discomfort in challenging conversations. Whether in personal, professional, or institutional settings, the focus is on practical tools that support clear communication, self-trust, and being heard without compromising your values.

COVID/FLU/RSV:

If you are feeling any of the symptoms of COVID/FLU/RSV or if you have been in close contact with someone diagnosed with COVID FLU/RSV PLEASE STAY HOME. If you think you’ve been around someone who has been in contact…STAY HOME.

NOT A SWING CLUB – DO NOT COME IF:

• you are seeking sex
• you want to have sex
• you want to watch sex
• you want to masturbate
• in other words if you want to watch sex or have sex you are coming to the wrong place. We are not for you. Try SwingTowns.com/like/TheLoftNC.

When:

Doors open at 6, party starts when you arrive. Doors close at midnight. No entry after 9:30 pm.

Tickets or Online Purchase:

You may purchase your $20 tickets and $30 membership via one of these methods – add note to designate event date:

Guest Ticket MUST be accompanied by a member.
Event Ticket
Venmo @LoftNC
Cash app $Ladyleighloftnc
PayPal loftnc@gmail.com
Zelle 704-964-1923

What to Bring:

Please bring a dish or snack to share. Donations of water, soda, k-cups, paper products, cleaning supplies are always welcome.

Membership:

The LoftNC is as private members only BDSM club and was founded to provide a safe and secure environment for our members and guests. Please note we are a BDSM club NOT a Swing Club. The location of our club home is provided only to our members and attendees and is not available on any maps or search engines. Help protect the groups’ privacy…please do NOT provide the club location to anyone. Please direct interested parties to our website at http://www.loftnc.com. All ticket sales, membership dues and donations help defray the costs of keeping the LoftNC.

Paying your membership is a requirement as we are a private club with membership rules that allow us to have the type of activities we enjoy. Membership for the year is $30 and renews on your anniversary date. In order to expedite check-in at the event, we request that memberships be purchased in advance. Membership: you can add or renew your membership along with your event tickets purchase or buy separately here – Membership.

Vetting

Because we are an educational venue we do our own vetting as we firmly believe that no one should be denied the ability to learn and grow. The LoftNC is a SAFE SPACE free from judgment and drama and we work very hard to maintain it as such.

Waivers:

If you have already completed your waivers you do NOT need to do them again. Information email including address provided with completed and accepted Waivers. Address to event will be provided via email from WaiverForever upon acceptance of completed waivers.

Links for Waivers to be completed prior to arrival at the LoftNC are:

1 -Covid Waiver: https://waiver.fr/p-Ou8GL
2 -Event Waiver: https://waiver.fr/p-GjJ3o

Discord:

The LoftNC Discord Is Still Here

The LoftNC Discord hasn’t gone anywhere; we’ve simply made some changes to better support our community.

If you’re interested in attending our events but social anxiety or being new to the community is holding you back, our Discord is a great place to start. It’s designed for social engagement, connection, and getting to know people in a lower-pressure environment before attending in person.

To join, please access the link below: https://discord.gg/hevZBCCw6Y

Please note that there is a required process to access the server. Be sure to follow all steps carefully. If you have any questions or run into issues, reach out to the server Mods (Tigerlily @https://fetlife.com/Nopeidontlikeyou, @KitfoxingAround, and @Zemmy), we’re happy to help.

We maintain a zero-tolerance policy for judgment, drama, predatory behavior, spamming, and trolling to ensure the space remains safe and welcoming for everyone.

Alcohol:

BYOB/W (beer or wine only) – please drink responsibly. Please note if hard alcohol is brought to the LoftNC you will be asked to leave.

Prohibited Items

No drugs, not 420 friendly, no hard alcohol, and no guns of any kind including tasers are permitted on LoftNC property at any time. Bringing such items will result in your being asked to leave and your membership revoked.

If you have any questions, please email LoftNC@gmail.com