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2021 Event Calendar on FetLife


Plans for 2021 will be for both in-person and virtual presentations whenever possible.  If there are any topics you would like to see or discuss, please let us know and we will reach out to presenters.

If you are going stir crazy and need to get out to play, we will offer limited availability for private rentals. Please bring your own during this time.

Our calendar of events links below provide you the most updated information on all events happening at the LoftNC.  Dates in Green are links to the event pages.  Please RSVP on event page or email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

NOTE: If you are not a member of FetLife, please email your RSVP to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..

You can now pay your membership dues online Square Marketplace - LoftNC Dues.

Our virtual events are being offered free to attendees as long as we are able to do so.  Our live events are $20 door fee for members, $30 for non-members/guests.  Dress code is vanilla to the door.  Open Play always follows demos/discussions.

01/16/2021 The Big D: Discipline in BDSM and BDSM and the Law - VIRTUAL and IN PERSON

 03/20/2021 Grand Re-Opening Social

 04/17/2021 April Kinky Open Social

05/02/2021 Negotiations from both the Top & bottom sides by Lady Leigh

05/16/2021 Respectful Bratting by Lady_Leigh


As usual, this is a work in progress and new demos and events will be added as they are booked.  Once events are actually posted, they will be underlined as active links. Our goal this year will be to have demos/discussions & open play on Sunday afternoons and themed or open play parties, Kinky Trivia, CFS, PetPlay, Littles Parties & Sleepovers, Foot Parties, Sweet Carolina Gurls & Friends Events, CFNM parties and more on Friday or Saturday evenings.  As always we are not open every day so please always check the calendar for events current or possibly being added.

If you don't see something you are interested in, drop us a note and we will see what we can do.

2020 Event Calendar

2020 Virtual Event Calendar

2019 Event Calendar

2018 Event Calendar

2017 Event Calendar

2016 Event Calendar

2015 Event Calendar