2022 Event Calendar on FetLife
Our calendar of events links below provide you the most updated information on all events happening at the LoftNC. Dates in Green are links to the event pages. Please RSVP on event page or email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. and follow the links on event posts for ticket purchases.
NOTE: If you are not a member of FetLife, please email your RSVP to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..
You can now pay your membership dues online Square Marketplace - LoftNC Dues.
About Covid Restrictions for 2022
We, along with the rest of the country, are happy to see COVID numbers declining. COVID requirements for LoftNC events are as follows:
- No we are not requiring proof of vaccines - ***(If we can't trust you on a vaccine then your negotiations to play are already flawed as trust is imperative to what we do)***
- ATTEND AT YOUR OWN RISK, Mask or No Mask You Decide
- if you have been in contact with anyone who has symptoms, PLEASE STAY HOME
- if you have any symptoms or are not feeling up to par, PLEASE STAY HOME
As always we have tried to not conflict with other local groups but as there are more and more venues available these days, that gets a little harder to do. We will always try to provide quality demos and instruction and safe open play as Safety and Education have been our mission from the beginning.
Virtual meetings may be offered in conjunction with physical meetings/demos as this enables more people to attend. If there are any topics you would like to see or discuss, please let us know and we will reach out to presenters.
If you are going stir crazy and need to get out to play, we will offer private rentals both hourly or overnight.
You can now pay your membership dues online Square Marketplace - LoftNC Dues.
04/01/2022 Welcome Home Party - let's reopen
04/07/2022 Newbie night - don't be shy, we all have questions so come ask yours (monthly event on 1st Thursday)
04/12/2022 Rope Bite Lab (monthly event on 2nd Tuesday)
04/17/2022 Closed to enjoy a Happy Easter with our families
04/20/2022 Game night (monthly event on 3rd Wednesday)
04/23/2022 Join Leigh @ Wingnut Spring Hunt
04/29/2022 Submissive Roundtable (monthly event on last Friday)
05/01/2022 Sensation to Subspace Without Impact
05/05/2022 Newbie night - don't be shy, we all have questions so come ask yours (monthly event) on 1st Thursday)
05/08/2022 CANCELED - TO BE RESCHEDULED Respectful Bratting! A Fun Way to Play
05/10/2022 Rope Bite Lab (monthly event on 2nd Tuesday)
05/14/2022 Dungeon Monitor Certification Class hosted by Capex held @ the LoftNC
05/14/2022 Join Leigh @ the Society of Jacksonville, NC
05/18/2022 Game night (monthly event on 3rd Wednesday)
05/27/2022 Submissive Roundtable (monthly event on last Friday)
05/29/2022 Liquid Nitrogen, Branding & Frozen Flower Flogging presented by OztheThird
06/02/2022 Newbie night - don't be shy, we all have questions so come ask yours (monthly event) on 1st Thursday
06/05/2022 Join Leigh @ Twisted Bondage
06/12/2022 Let's Play! What's a scene, how to navigate negotiations, aftercare...
06/14/2022 Rope Bite Lab (monthly event on 2nd Tuesday)
06/15/2022 Game night (monthly event on 3rd Wednesday)
06/24/2022 Submissive Roundtable (monthly event on last Friday)
06/25/2022 Join Leigh @ Capex for Sensation to Subspace w/o Impact
06/29/2022 Newbie Night - don't be shy, we all have questions so come ask yours (monthly event) on 1st Thursday)
06/30/2022 Submissive Roundtable YES this one is on Thursday (monthly event on last Friday)
07/02/2022 Kinky Independence Day BBQ & Open Play
07/03/2022 Dungeons & Dragons Private Monthly Game Day (send PM @Zemmy to join wait list or make inquiries)
07/12/2022 Rope Bite Lab (monthly event on 2nd Tuesday)
07/14/2022 Newbie Night - don't be shy, we all have questions so come ask yours (monthly event) on 1st Thursday)
07/17/2022 How to give a Massage that doesn't suck! presented by SimplyTempest
07/20/2022 Game Night (monthly event on 3rd Wednesday)
07/29/2022 Submissive Round table (monthly event on last Friday)
07/30/2022 Little's Party and Sleepover
07/31/2022 Dungeons & Dragons Private Monthly Game Day (send PM @Zemmy to join wait list or make inquiries)
08/04/2022 Newbie Night - don't be shy, we all have questions so come ask yours (monthly event) on 1st Thursday)
08/06/2022 Join Leigh at TMG Raleigh
08/07/2022 Erotic Chains presented by Kinky Chief
08/09/2022 Rope Bite Lab (monthly event on 2nd Tuesday)
08/13/2022 Self Bondage presented by -Britney-
08/17/2022 Game night (monthly event on 3rd Wednesday)
08/21/2022 Erotic Whips by -D-
08/26/2022 Submissive Round table (monthly event on last Friday)
09/01/2022 Newbie Night - don't be shy, we all have questions so come ask yours (monthly event) on 1st Thursday)
09/04/2022 Dungeons & Dragons Private Monthly Game Day (send PM @Zemmy to join wait list or make inquiries)
09/05/2022 Labor Day Open Play
09/11/2022 Respectful & Creative Bratting presented by Lady_Leigh, Nine-point-five & NopeIDon'tLikeYou
09/13/2022 Rope Bite Lab (monthly event on 2nd Tuesday)
09/17/2022 Join Lady_Leigh @ Wingnut Fall Hunt
09/21/2022 Game night (monthly event on 3rd Wednesday)
09/25/2022 Spanking -How, Why and Where
09/30/2022 DATE CHANGED TO OCTOBER 7TH DUE TO HURRICANE IAN Submissive Round Table (monthly event on last Friday)
10/01/2022 CANCELED DUE TO HURRICANE IAN Whips, a Beginning Point presented by Dex
10/02/2022 Dungeons & Dragons Private Monthly Game Day (send PM @Zemmy to join wait list or make inquiries)
10/06/2022 Newbie Night - don't be shy, we all have questions so come ask yours (monthly event) on 1st Thursday)
10/07/2022 DATE CHANGED DUE TO HURRICANE IAN Submissive Round Table (monthly event on last Friday)
10/07-08/2022 Join Leigh @ PALS Ample Samples
10/11/2022 Rope Bite (monthly event on 2nd Tuesday)
10/16/2022 Interrogation & Waterboarding presented by Lady_Leigh & Luv4Oz
10/19/2022 Game night (monthly event on 3rd Wednesday)
10/21/2022 Singles Mingle Canceled will reschedule
10/28/2022 Submissive Round Table (monthly event on last Friday)
10/29/2022 Spooky Kooky Halloween Party
11/03/2022 Newbie Night - don't be shy, we all have questions so come ask yours (monthly event) on 1st Thursday)
11/05/2022 Party Just Because!
11/06/2022 Dungeons & Dragons Private Monthly Game Day (send PM @Zemmy to join wait list or make inquiries)
11/08/2022 Rope Bite (monthly event on 2nd Tuesday)
11/16/2022 Game Night (monthly event on 3rd Wednesday)
11/20/2022 Sensation to Subspace Without Impact Demo & Open Play Day
11/25/2022 Just Say NO to Black Friday Shopping - come play instead!
11/27/2022 TBD
11/30/2022 Submissive Round Table **day changed due to holiday** (monthly event on last Friday)
12/01/2022 Newbie Night - don't be shy, we all have questions so come ask yours (monthly event) on 1st Thursday)
12/03/2022 Join Lady_Leigh @ TMG Holiday Fair, Raleigh
12/04/2022 Dungeons & Dragons Private Monthly Game Day (send PM @Zemmy to join wait list or make inquiries)
12/10/2022 Join Leigh @ Twisted Toyland
12/13/2022 Rope Bite Lab (monthly event on 2nd Tuesday)
12/18/2022 Holiday Party & Kinky Gift Exchange with Santa MetalWoRx Claus and Mrs Cobalt Claus
12/21/2022 ON HIATUS FOR HOLIDAY Game night (monthly event on 3rd Wednesday)
12/23/2022 Submissive Roundtable ON HIATUS FOR HOLIDAY
01/07/2023 Annual After New Year's Bash
As usual, this is a work in progress and new demos and events will be added as they are booked. Once events are actually posted, they will be underlined as active links. Our goal this year will be to have demos/discussions & open play on Sunday afternoons and themed or open play parties, Kinky Trivia, CFS, PetPlay, Littles Parties & Sleepovers, Foot Parties, Sweet Carolina Gurls & Friends Events, CFNM parties and more on Friday or Saturday evenings. As always we are not open every day so please always check the calendar for events current or possibly being added.
If you don't see something you are interested in, drop us a note and we will see what we can do.
