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Sensation to Subspace without Impact

You know that awesome trip to subspace you take when you’ve had your endorphins go sky high from an intense flogging or other impact scene? Did you know you can do the very same thing without impact at all? Yes you can! You can go to subspace with nothing but sensation play. Learn how to enjoy all the different sensations and fun implements you can use to heighten the experience for both top and bottom. (this is one of my favorite classes to teach, to watch the awe on faces when they see what can be done with absolutely NO impact!)

As a venue owner and educator, we often see newbies enter lifestyle and immediately get sucked into pain, marks, more and more, and need even more. This presentation shows an alternative way to jazz up your scene with that exciting push and pull and energy exchange, a way to space and fly high without having to be a masochist/sadist.

**Lady Leigh began her lifestyle journey as a submissive with her husband of 42 years. During their journey they were fortunate to meet others who taught them how to play safely. As a way to give back, she is dedicated to the presentation of education for the community & firmly believes in “each one teach one.” She travels to teach because it’s just that important.

She is the owner of the LoftNC, a Studio and Social Club (http://www.loftnc.com) in Gastonia which gives the community a place to come play and to receive education and support in a healthy and safe manner.

She is also the co-owner of http://www.SoaringEagleCreations.com with her partner, MSquared- (a/k/a NIne_Point_Five) and together they produce wonderful leather toys for your kinky pleasure.**


If you are feeling any of the symptoms of COVID or if you have been in close contact with someone diagnosed with COVID PLEASE STAY HOME. If you think you’ve been around someone who has been in contact…STAY HOME.


  • you are seeking sex
  • you want to have sex
  • you want to watch sex
  • you want to masturbate
  • in other words if you want to watch sex or have sex you are coming to the wrong place. We are not for you. Try SwingTowns.com/like/TheLoftNC.


Doors open at 1 pm, demo starts at 2 followed by open play until 8 pm.

Tickets or Online Purchase:

You may purchase your $20 tickets and $20 membership via one of these methods – add note to designate event date:

Door when you arrive via credit card or cash
Venmo @Kelly-Hofmann
Cash app $Ladyleighloftnc
PayPal loftnc@gmail.com
Zelle 704-964-1923

What to Bring:

Please bring a dish or snack to share – proteins, fruit, vegetables to dip, all are welcome. Donations of soda, k-cups, paper products are always welcome.


The LoftNC is as private members only BDSM club and was founded to provide a safe and secure environment for our members and guests. Please note we are a BDSM club NOT a Swing Club. The location of our club home is provided only to our members and attendees and is not available on any maps or search engines. Help protect the groups’ privacy…please do NOT provide the club location to anyone. Please direct interested parties to our website at http://www.loftnc.com. All ticket sales, membership dues and donations help defray the costs of keeping the LoftNC operating and are not income for the Owner, Lady Leigh.

Paying your membership is a requirement as we are a private club with membership rules that allow us to have the type of activities we enjoy. Membership for the year is $20 and renews on your anniversary date. In order to expedite check-in at the event, we request that memberships be purchased in advance. Membership: you can add or renew your membership along with your event tickets purchase or buy separately here – https://squareup.com/market/loftncsocialclub/membership-dues.


Because we are an educational venue we do our own vetting as we firmly believe that no one should be denied the ability to learn and grow. The LoftNC is a SAFE SPACE free from judgment and drama and we work very hard to maintain it as such. So complete your Waivers (see below) and come join us so we can get to know you.


If you have already completed your waivers you do NOT need to do them again. Information email including address provided with completed and accepted Waivers – you will receive an email from WaiverForever that says “Thank You for Signing”. If you don’t see this please check your spam/junk folder.

Links for Waivers to be completed prior to arrival at the LoftNC are:

1 -Covid Waiver: https://waiver.fr/p-Ou8GL
2 -Event Waiver: https://waiver.fr/p-GjJ3o


Join our Discord @ https://discord.gg/Nvf8R2TD3Q. You can RSVP, purchase tickets, purchase membership, ask questions, and more.


BYOB/W (beer or wine only) – please drink responsibly. Please note if hard alcohol is brought to the LoftNC you will be asked to leave.

Prohibited Items

No drugs, not 420 friendly, no hard alcohol, and no guns of any kind including tasers are permitted on LoftNC property at any time. Bringing such items will result in your being asked to leave and your membership revoked. NOTE – THESE RULES ALSO APPLY TO YOU GOING BACK AND FORTH TO YOUR CAR TO DRINK OR SMOKE.

If you have any questions, please email LoftNC@gmail.com


Jun 23 2024


1:00 pm - 8:00 pm

More Info

RSVP On Fetlist


The Loft
Gastonia, NC
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