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Poly Lifestyle Discussion

We see lots of questions, confusion and general how do we do poly lifestyle so the LoftNC will be hosting Poly Lifestyle Discussion every 2nd Thursday of the month. We are happy to say that @Stick will be joining us when possible. Stick is a long-standing leader of our community and active poly for many years.

We are continuing to make sure that safety and cleaning measures are in place, to enjoy our social and kink once again.

Doors open at 630, discussion starts at 7.

What to Bring:

Please bring a dish or snack to share. Donations of soda, k-cups, paper products are always welcome.

Door Fee:

Door fee is $10 to help keep the lights on. You may purchase your tickets and membership via one of these methods – add note to designate event date:
Venmo @Kelly-Hofmann
Cash app $Ladyleighloftnc
PayPal loftnc@gmail.com
Zelle 704-964-1923


NOTE – membership is not required for Poly Lifestyle Discussion Night.

The LoftNC is as private members only BDSM club and was founded to provide a safe and secure environment for our members and guests. Please note we are a BDSM club NOT a Swing Club. The location of our club home is provided only to our members and attendees and is not available on any maps or search engines. Help protect the groups’ privacy…please do NOT provide the club location to anyone. Please direct interested parties to our website at http://www.loftnc.com. All ticket sales, membership dues and donations help defray the costs of keeping the LoftNC operating and are not income for the Owner, Lady Leigh.

Paying your membership is a requirement as we are a private club with membership rules that allow us to have the type of activities we enjoy. Membership for the year is $20 and renews on your anniversary date. In order to expedite check-in at the event, we request that memberships be purchased in advance. Purchase or renew your membership online here.


Because we are an educational venue we do our own vetting as we firmly believe that no one should be denied the ability to learn and grow. The LoftNC is a SAFE SPACE and we work very hard to maintain it as such.


If you have already completed your waivers you do NOT need to do them again.
Links for Waivers to be completed prior to arrival at the LoftNC are:

1 -Covid Waiver: https://waiver.fr/p-Ou8GL

2 -Event Waiver: https://waiver.fr/p-GjJ3o


Join our Discord @ https://discord.gg/sACkr27F. You can RSVP, purchase tickets, purchase membership, ask questions, and more.


BYOB/W (beer or wine only) – please drink responsibly. Please note if hard alcohol is brought to the LoftNC you will be asked to leave.


ATTEND AT YOUR OWN RISK (Mask or No Mask You Decide). If you are feeling any of the symptoms of COVID or if you have been in close contact with someone diagnosed with COVID PLEASE STAY HOME.

If you have any questions, please email LoftNC@gmail.com.

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Aug 08 2024


6:30 pm - 9:30 pm




The Loft
Gastonia, NC

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