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SUMMARY:BDSM Dungeon & Play Party Etiquette
DESCRIPTION:\n\n\nWhether you’re brand new to kink spaces or a seasoned player, this guide breaks down everything you need to know to move through dungeons and play parties with respect, safety, and confidence.\nFrom consent and negotiation to spectator etiquette, gear use, aftercare, and red flags to watch for—this resource is designed to help you feel prepared, informed, and empowered.\nNopeIDontLikeYou a/k/a TigerLily bio:\nI’m a genderqueer community contributor with over 15 years of experience in the lifestyle and have been active in the Charlotte scene since 2015. I began educating in 2020 through s-type content on social media, webinars, and books, and have since co-hosted panels and webinars on community engagement. Locally, I co-hosted the Submissive Roundtable at the LoftNC and led s-type intensive workshops with fellow educators. Most educational events I hold are online. I’m passionate about lifelong learning, personal growth, and creating inclusive spaces. As a member of the LGBTQIA+, BIPOC, and Disabilities communities, I welcome respectful dialogue and feedback to grow as an ally and advocate.\n@kitfoxingaround\nKitfoxingaround is an experienced bottom with over 10 years bottoming and teaching experience. She is currently on the board of the Service Oriented Conference, helps lead the local Not Quite Old, Not Quite Young (NQONQY) group, and was on the -CAPEX- board from 2021-2023. She has been with her Owner Oni/Horned_Beast since 2002\nCOVID/FLU/RSV:\nIf you are feeling any of the symptoms of COVID/FLU/RSV or if you have been in close contact with someone diagnosed with COVID FLU/RSV PLEASE STAY HOME. If you think you’ve been around someone who has been in contact…STAY HOME.\nNOT A SWING CLUB – DO NOT COME IF: you are seeking sex, you want to have sex, you want to watch sex or you want to masturbate – in other words if you want to watch sex or have sex you are coming to the wrong place. We are not for you. Try SwingTowns.com/like/TheLoftNC ( https://fetlife.com/leave/confirmation?redirect_path=http%3A%2F%2Fswingtowns.com%2Flike%2Ftheloftnc ).\nWhen:\nDoors open at 1 pm, demo begins at 2, open play follows demo until 8 pm.\nTickets or Online Purchase:\nYou may purchase your $20 tickets and $30 membership via one of these methods – add note to designate event date:\nGuest Ticket ( https://fetlife.com/leave/confirmation?redirect_path=https%3A%2F%2Fcheckout.square.site%2Fbuy%2FZGRFNLFF4DM6BMPODPEH6OIX ) MUST be accompanied by a member.\nEvent Ticket ( https://fetlife.com/leave/confirmation?redirect_path=https%3A%2F%2Fcheckout.square.site%2Fbuy%2F34NCGK7MLGZS6WSRTBPQWRL5 )\nVenmo @LoftNC\nCash app $Ladyleighloftnc\nPayPal loftnc@gmail.com\nZelle 704-964-1923\nWhat to Bring:\nPlease bring a dish or snack to share. Donations of water, soda, k-cups, paper products, cleaning supplies are always welcome.\nMembership:\nThe LoftNC is as private members only BDSM club and was founded to provide a safe and secure environment for our members and guests. Please note we are a BDSM club NOT a Swing Club. The location of our club home is provided only to our members and attendees and is not available on any maps or search engines. Help protect the groups’ privacy…please do NOT provide the club location to anyone. Please direct interested parties to our website at http://www.loftnc.com. All ticket sales, membership dues and donations help defray the costs of keeping the LoftNC.\nPaying your membership is a requirement as we are a private club with membership rules that allow us to have the type of activities we enjoy. Membership for the year is $30 and renews on your anniversary date. In order to expedite check-in at the event, we request that memberships be purchased in advance. Membership: you can add or renew your membership along with your event tickets purchase or buy separately here – Membership ( https://fetlife.com/leave/confirmation?redirect_path=https%3A%2F%2Fsquareup.com%2Fmarket%2Floftncsocialclub%2Fmembership-dues ).\nVetting\nBecause we are an educational venue we do our own vetting as we firmly believe that no one should be denied the ability to learn and grow. The LoftNC is a SAFE SPACE free from judgment and drama and we work very hard to maintain it as such.\nWaivers:\nIf you have already completed your waivers you do NOT need to do them again. Information email including address provided with completed and accepted Waivers. Address to event will be provided via email from WaiverForever upon acceptance of completed waivers.\nLinks for Waivers to be completed prior to arrival at the LoftNC are:\n1 -Covid Waiver: https://waiver.fr/p-Ou8GL\n2 -Event Waiver: https://waiver.fr/p-GjJ3o\nDiscord:\nYou may join our discord @https ( https://fetlife.com/https )://discord.gg/EG89ddBtKs. Keep in mind you will remain in newbie status until membership is paid, waivers are completed, and you have attended an event. Discord is for chat between members, making friends and staying linked in with happenings at the LoftNC. There is a strict NO DRAMA or JUDGMENT rule on our Discord.\nAlcohol & Prohibited Items:\nBYOB/W (beer or wine only) – please drink responsibly. Please note if hard alcohol is brought to the LoftNC you will be asked to leave. No drugs, not 420 friendly, no hard alcohol, and no guns of any kind including tasers are permitted on LoftNC property at any time. Bringing such items will result in your being asked to leave and your membership revoked.\nIf you have any questions, please email LoftNC@gmail.com\n\n\n\n
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