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2021 Event Calendar on FetLife


Plans for 2021 will be for both in-person and virtual presentations whenever possible.  If there are any topics you would like to see or discuss, please let us know and we will reach out to presenters.

If you are going stir crazy and need to get out to play, we will offer limited availability for private rentals. Please bring your own during this time.

Our calendar of events links below provide you the most updated information on all events happening at the LoftNC.  Dates in Green are links to the event pages.  Please RSVP on event page or email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. and follow the links on event posts for ticket purchases.

NOTE: If you are not a member of FetLife, please email your RSVP to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..

You can now pay your membership dues online Square Marketplace - LoftNC Dues.

Our virtual events are being offered free to attendees as long as we are able to do so.  Our live events are $20 door fee for members, $30 for non-members/guests.  Dress code is vanilla to the door.  Open Play always follows demos/discussions.

We also have Monthly Events once again including Rope Bite and Game Nite.

01/16/2021 The Big D: Discipline in BDSM and BDSM and the Law - VIRTUAL and IN PERSON

03/20/2021 Grand Re-Opening Social

04/17/2021 April Kinky Open Social

05/02/2021 Negotiations from both the Top & bottom sides by Lady Leigh

05/16/2021 Respectful Bratting by Lady_Leigh

06/06/2021 How to Negotiate Pick-up-play

06/12/2021 Saturday Kinky Social!

06/19/2021 Spanksalot Party!!

07/03/2021 Kinky BBQ/Bonfire & Open Play

07/17/2021 Get Your Kink On! Saturday Night Fun

07/25/2021 Lap Dance Demo by KitFoxSlave

08/01/2021 How to Give a Massage that doesn't Suck! by CaptainsTempest

08/07/2021 Join Lady_Leigh at Twisted Bondage Canceled

08/15/2021 What's in your Toy Bag? Let's talk pervertables!

08/18/2021 Game Night (new monthly event)

08/22/2021 Mindfucks!

08/24/2021 Tuesday Night Rope Bite Kickoff!!! by Master_Varii

08/29/2021 Open Play Social

09/03/2021 Sweet Carolina Gurls & Friends - Girls Night!!!

09/12/2021 Liquid Nitrogen, Branding & Frozen Flower Flogging with OztheThird - to be rescheduled

09/15/2021 Game Night (new monthly event)

09/18/2021 Open Play Saturday Night

09/28/2021 Tuesday Night Rope Bite by Master_Varii

10/20/2021 Game Night (new monthly event)

10/26/2021 Tuesday Night Rope Bite by Master_Varii

11/06/2021 Play, Party & Get Your Kink On

11/13/2021 Join Lady_Leigh at Wicked Wonderland @ 1763

11/17/2021 Game Night

11/23/2021 Rope Bite

12/02-05/2021 Coastal Carolina Fetish Fair

12/18/2021 Ho-Ho-Ho! Tis the season to get kinky!

01/08/2022 After New Year's Bash


As usual, this is a work in progress and new demos and events will be added as they are booked.  Once events are actually posted, they will be underlined as active links. Our goal this year will be to have demos/discussions & open play on Sunday afternoons and themed or open play parties, Kinky Trivia, CFS, PetPlay, Littles Parties & Sleepovers, Foot Parties, Sweet Carolina Gurls & Friends Events, CFNM parties and more on Friday or Saturday evenings.  As always we are not open every day so please always check the calendar for events current or possibly being added.

If you don't see something you are interested in, drop us a note and we will see what we can do.

2020 Event Calendar

2020 Virtual Event Calendar

2019 Event Calendar

2018 Event Calendar

2017 Event Calendar

2016 Event Calendar

2015 Event Calendar