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May 8, 2022: 1-8 pm


Respectful Bratting - a fun way to play!

Are you a brat? Are you a submissive? Are you a little? Brats can be any or all of these but are not always littles or submissives.
"A brat doesn't want to win. They want to wrestle." That's why they brat. They're not looking to overpower their Dom. They're looking to challenge them. They want to end up on their knees, they just don't want to get there willingly.

They want to feel that dominance and be overcome by it. They want to poke, torment and tease until enough is enough and they're on their stomach getting the spanking they richly deserve and want more than anything.

A bratty submissive is still a submissive, they just have a different language of submission than some and need a Dom willing to play their games.
Just remember, it's a game they want to lose, but they're going to make you earn that victory and always test you to see if you have what it takes to win."

Lady Leigh began her lifestyle journey as a submissive with her husband of 41 years. During their journey they were fortunate to meet others who taught them how to play safely. As a way to give back, she is dedicated to the presentation of education for the community & firmly believes in "each one teach one." She travels to teach because it's just that important.

She is the owner of the LoftNC, a Studio and Social Club (http://www.loftnc.com) in Gastonia which gives the community a place to come play and to receive education and support in a healthy and safe manner.

She is also the co-owner of Soaring Eagle Creations with her partner, MSquared- (a/k/a NIne_Point_Five) and together they produce wonderful leather toys for your kinky pleasure.

*We are back and It feels wonderful to be able to offer education and kink events once again. We are continuing to make sure that safety and cleaning measures are in place, to enjoy our kink once again. Bring your toy bags and come enjoy a day of kinky fun.*

Doors open at 1 pm, demo/discussion begins at 2 pm.  Door fee is $20 for members.  Dress is always casual or vanilla to the door.

Purchase non-refundable ticket HERE.

RSVP information including address to be sent upon receipt of ticket purchase. (NOTE - clicking "going" does not guarantee admission).

Paying your membership is a requirement as we are a private club with membership rules that allow us to have the type of activities we allow. Membership for the year is $20 and renews on your anniversary date. In order to expedite check-in at the event, we request that memberships be purchased in advance. *Purchase or renew your membership online Membership HERE.

Members in good standing may purchase guest tickets with your own ticket purchase or separately [HERE][https://checkout.square.site/merchant/X1B55J77TSM28/checkout/7X7ZOJV2BUKMFARAPWTDCJN3].

We are trying to alleviate congestion at check-in and are requiring ticket purchases in advance as well as online completion of both Covid & Event Waivers. Waivers can be completed anytime and are stored in an offsite backup so only need to be signed once.  If you are unable to complete your ticket purchase online, please let us know and we can arrange ticket purchase at the door for you.

***If you have already completed your waivers you do not need to do them again.***

Links for Waivers to be completed prior to arrival at the LoftNC are:

1 -Covid Waiver: **https://waiver.fr/p-Ou8GL**

2 -Event Waiver: **https://waiver.fr/p-GjJ3o**

If you have any problems completing the Waivers, email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. for assistance. If you have already completed the aforementioned Waivers for a prior event then you are all set.

Please bring a snack or dessert to share. Donations of supplies, paper products, cleaning supplies, sodas, K-cups, and such for the house are greatly appreciated.

BYOB/W (beer or wine only) - please drink responsibly

ATTEND AT YOUR OWN RISK (Mask or No Mask You Decide). If you are feeling any of the symptoms of COVID PLEASE STAY HOME.

If you have any questions, please email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..

Donations of supplies, paper products, cleaning supplies and such for the house are greatly appreciated.





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