Why of all things do I have kissing as a hard limit? I've been asked this with many a quizzical look in the last little bit of time. So let me try to explain:
Because its intimate. It's deep. It's emotional. It's consuming.
I don't mean the little cheek pecks everyone does as a part of a welcome or a goodbye. Those are fine. Even kissing my forehead is fine. Kissing anywhere else is fine. Just not my mouth.
I like kissing. Been told I'm good at it. But it's just too connective.
It's a sure fire way to get me hurt.
Do I want to kiss? To be kissed? Hell fucking yeah!
But I know I shouldn't. Therefore, I place it on my limit list.
Kissing makes me melt. A big strong guy kissing me. Taking a kiss from me... Makes me goo. I become a puddle. I lose myself. I lose myself to him.
I have a standard list of limits, and what stays and goes on that when I play with someone depends on that someone. My comfort level with that person and how I feel they are with it as well.
Example is gags. On my limit list. However, there is one person I've met recently that if and when we play, I would let him gag me. I'm comfortable with the idea of him gagging me. For everyone else: hard limit.
Comes down to trust.
So, sure there are people I would kiss. I want to kiss. I want to be kissed.
But with me and kissing, there's a responsibility.
Feeling a deep connection with me?
No doubt I want to be kissed?
Then kiss me.
But be prepared to be responsible.