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February 17, 2019: 1-8 pm

Dungeon Essentials & Negotiations

discussion led by Lady_Leigh (Postponed from January20th due to a conflict)

This discussion cover all the questions - who, what, where, why, how and any others you've probably thought of but too shy to ask. Been around awhile, that's okay. Come join in the discussion as everyone always has something new to offer and it never hurts to hear good information. Kink is definitely an "each one teach one" so come join in.

Dungeon Essentials

This class explores the etiquette and protocols of public play spaces. What to expect when you visit a dungeon. How should you dress? How do you meet others? Do you have to be part of a couple? What are the rules for play and socializing? What about negotiations? All of these questions and many many more are answered. This presentation is an open discussion.

Negotiations, Scene Building & other how to questions & answers

Negotiations, Scene Building & other how to questions & answers will cover negotiating everything from pick up play to relationships. We will cover checklists, do and don'ts of negotiating, limits and boundaries, safety in play and affirmative negotiating. With Scene building we will cover the basics of planning and prepping for a scene. How to build up, warm up, what if things go wrong, and also post-scene/aftercare topics. Also will cover building a starter toy bag, what should a bottom have of their own and dropping and how to care for yourself/ your partner.

Doors open at 1 pm, demo begins at 2 pm.  Door fee is $20 for members, $30 for guests/non-members.

Dress is always vanilla to the door.

Donations of snacks/sodas/coffee to share, supplies, paper products, cleaning supplies and such for the house are greatly appreciated.

Membership: Paying your membership is a requirement as we are a private club with membership rules that allow us to have the type of activities we allow. Membership for the year is $20 and renews on your anniversary of joining. Yes you can pay your membership dues at the door.

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Note for city location: we are still in Gastonia, however due tot he search parameters of FetLife, we don't show on searches for events. Therefore, we are listed as "Charlotte" so that our friends can more easily find us and come get their kink on.

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